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"The only difference between a caprice and a lifelong passion is that the caprice lasts a little longer." -- from The Picture of Dorian Gray, by Oscar Wilde. I nabbed my username from it because it's my favorite book, and because Oscar Wilde is my dead gay boyfriend.
I recently moved to New York with my boyfriend. We have an open relationship. I'm not exactly searching actively for anything new right now, but I'm not ruling out meeting a fun play partner.
I'm an utter bibliophile -- don't dog-ear pages in front of me, I'll cry. Do talk books to me. I'm always looking for recommendations, even if I have a stack of untouched books already I probably won't get to until for an age and a half.
I like music, but in the way people who bring their iPods everywhere do, not the way people who can actually make it do. Favorites include Regina Spektor, Ani Difranco, and Rufus Wainwright.
I'm a feminist and don't see this as contradictory to my submission. If that bugs you, we probably won't get along. If you respect it, we'll be just fine.
What I'm looking for: super cool people to be friends with. If the chemistry is good, I'd love to play too, maybe with some sex in there somewhere.
Who I'm looking for: Women, mostly. I'm in a girl crazy place in my life. I'm also open to playing with men, or people who don't quite fit one of the binary options. Mostly, though, I'm interested in women right now. Dominant or switchy, whichever, although I do want people who will be dominant with me. People with senses of humor, who don't mind that I get the giggles at inappropriate moments and understand I'm not laughing at them (or if I am, it's probably because I like them.) People who can recommend good books and music and movies to me. People I have more in common with than kinky sex (but are into the kinky sex thing too.) People who understand that playing from time to time doesn't mean they own me, and that there is already someone in my life whom I belong to and love very much.
If you think that might be you, feel free to drop me a line. :)
I hate to put up a bunch of limitations, since I think what I am interested in is more important than what I am not interested in, but I may as well get these out in the open:
- If you are not local, it's not happening. I just graduated college. I don't have much of a travel budget just yet, and I will not hop a plane just to get laid.
- My age ranges are pretty bendy, since I know many people get into BDSM a little later in life and insisting on only people within a couple of years of me would be unrealistic. However, if you could reasonably be mistaken for one of my parents, I'm unlikely to be interested.
- I'm not looking for a relationship. I am already someone's happily spoiled pet, so if you're looking for someone to be all yours, I'm not her.
- Please note that my "looking for" does not include couples. I don't do couples 99% of the time. Chances are you are not in the other 1%. If you have to ask, do it respectfully, and please be ready to share something you found appealing about me besides "young, female, bisexual, and not visibly deformed."
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