I am a women who has often fantasized about alternate styles of sex. I understand that happiness comes from surrendering “giving” up of ones self to another. My pleasure comes from servicing and pleasing you. My gift “submission” to my Master/Dom will not be taken, but given freely. I believe that submission should never be given away freely to just anyone. For it is a gift that is better given; therefore being selective on whom receives this gift.

My hunger and burning desires can only be satisfied from submission. The enjoyment I receive from being controlled, is like nothing else. I am a confident sub, not to be confused with arrogant. Considered by most as attractive, intelligent, sensual, creative and erotic. Passionate in everything I do. I am very honest, don't have the time or the patience to act other wise. I have found that it is a lot easier to be yourself, honest and open and let the chips fall where they may. The Master I kneel before, should have a lot of the same qualities.

I am looking for a Master/Dom that is experienced in his position. Experience is a must. I only the training that an experienced Dom can offer. A Dom that prefers to treat his sub with respect, compassion and patience. Understands that the mental part is important; it enhances the subs willingness to submit.

You should have a true understanding and believe in "Control ones mind and the rest will follow". Understand that patience is important when building trust in a D/s relationship. I seek an experienced Dom whom I can trust. Without trust, the relationship can't grow and develop into the true beauty that it is.

You should not only be experienced but be confident as a Master/Dom. Enjoy training, caring and protecting your sub. Your happiness comes from domination and controlling another.

You believe that to control another doesn't have to be abusive, degrading and cold. You rather control your sub with understanding, compassion and trust. You prefer to cherish and care for your sub, rather then give punishment. It is understood though you are firm and will punish when need be.

You must be honest, dd free partner. One who is willing to be patient with me because I am new.

If you don't understand what it means to be a dom; to truly desire, demand, lust, crave, love, cherish, own, control another - you never will; please don't waste either of our time.