LexVitaRectivs

Female Submissive, 24, Albany, New York

Just Perfect: So I filled out the little of preferences as best I could; Obviously the narrow focus and selection of amount of experience and interest make the checklist a less than perfect tool to find out what really turns a person on. The simple fact is a connection of like minds produces the conditions under which any of these activities are fun. This is the case for myself, and I'm sure most others. I know there are individuals who truly don't need nor want a connection to enjoy themselves; I consider this a pathology. So I'm a pretty smart guy, I've been pretty successful by conventional standards, and while I'm very even tempered, I'm very competitive as well. I think that's part of why I enjoy the Dom role; I do have things to offer a sub, but what I have to offer isn't the window dressing aspect of domination; I think the 'protocol' and all of the 'codes' are an elaborate attempt to create a structure out of the bullshit and pseudo-intellectual rationalization that 'doms' and 'subs' use to explain to one another why their 'relationships' are failing to work out yet again. I actually don't like being the cause of true pain to anyone. I wish people well. What I like is twofold- first the challenge . I can force lots of things to happen, but can I convince this person to beg me to force them? Naturally, this is only interesting if the other party is a whole person herself- and an equal in the real relationship. Otherwise, I think it's simply prolonging someone's genuine misery and failing them as a friend. The second part is the trust component. When trust is given and returned truly between people who respect one another- pushing the boundaries of almost anything can be an erotic experience. There's the danger, the thrill, but the trust is always the lifeline back to the real. ugh.. I've rambled on.. well, never mind explaining my choices in the checklist... if you've got any questions I think you know you can ask.

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