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Hetero Female Submissive, 36,  Lawton, Oklahoma
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I have recently met someone who has opened my eyes to the AB/DL lifestyle. While I know very little what all of this entails, the AB part of it does peek my curiousity.
So while exploring more about AB/DL, I have found more about babygirls or "littles." What I have learned about babygirls, seems to fit me perfectly. Again, I don't know much about it, but I am curious.
As for what I am looking for ....
First and foremost, HONESTY. You HAVE to be honest with me at all times, NO MATTER WHAT. As I will always be honest with you.
Communication: I have to be able to talk to the One I submit to. If I feel I can't come to You and tell You anything, no matter how little or stupid it may seem to You, we won't last.
I'm not going to sit here and say I'm easy to handle, because I'm not. I have trust issues and require more patience than most have.
While most of the time I am pretty independant, I am at times very needy, emotional, irrational, whiny, and/or childish. I need someOne who will be ok with that and help me through those times.
I require a very strong Dom who is secure in themselves and knows how to handle a "strong willed" babygirl/submissive.
I want someOne who will allow me to explore, guide me when I need it, but will stand back and let me fall flat on my face too. One who will pick me up when I fall flat on my face and hold me and reassure me.
As stated above, I know very little about the AB and BG lifestyle. So naturally I would need someOne who is experienced and can teach me. You MUST have patience and understanding. I don't always pick things up very fast, and I am very inquisitive by nature. I have to know WHY. "Because I said so" is not an answer.
I am a BBW. You have an issue with that, move on. I don't need nor want Your criticism or comments.
If You are married or are in ANY type of relationship, move on. I do NOT play well with others.
If You are seeking phone/cam/online play only, move on. I am not the one You are seeking. While I will talk on the phone (hello, I am a female after all), I do not want a phone/online thing only. No, that does NOT mean I want to move in with you tomorrow. Or even next week. It means I will accept online/phone for a certain amount of time, but then will expect it to move to the next level.
If You live outside the US, move on. I will NOT move to a different country.
I am NOT willing to relocate to ANYWHERE at this time. That may change in the future, but for now, it stands.
If you are younger than me, move on. I want a Daddy, and if You are younger than me, kinda makes that difficult.
I prefer someone who is "around" my age. If you are more than 20-25 years older than me, we probably won't be a very good fit.
I am not new to the D/s lifestyle.
If what I have posted sounds like you, feel free to message me.
I look forward to hearing from You.











 Submissive Female



 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

 Lives For:

 Horseback Riding


 Canes and Crops


 Erotic touch

 Hair Pulling



 Massage (Giving)

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play



 Country Music





 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales








 Scuba Diving


 Anal Play




 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged




 Wax Play

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing






 Lifestyle BDSM



 Horse Racing


 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops



 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Martial Arts

 Skate Boarding


 Breast Play

 Online Chatrooms




 Eighties Music

 Nineties Music


 Seventies Music







 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining










 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service

 Housework Service


 Comedy Shows


 Historical Shows



 Online RPGs

 Science Fiction


 TV News

 Online Auctions

 Heavy Metal Music

 Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Auto Racing


 Curious About:

 Bird Watching

 Electrical Play

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control


 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play


 Speech Restrictions


 Suspension Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Role Playing Games

 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 Alternative Medicine


 Art Collecting



 Candle Making

 Cross Stitch







 Soap Making

 1950s Lifestyle





 Bar Hopping


 Going to the Opera



 Corner Time


 Foot Worship




 Horror Movies

 Female Sovereignty





 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing



 Hard Limits:

 G-spot Stimulation

 Gas Masks


 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism

 Sensation Play

 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Folk Music


 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Opera Music


 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music




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