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Male Dominant, 51, south jersey, New Jersey
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About levelfive
Ultimate Orgasm
On a scale of 1 to 5 with 5 being the ultimate, how often or have you ever achieved a level 5 orgasm? I’ve been fortunate to have experienced level 5 on numerous occasions, usually as a submissive, but as a Dom I’ve helped several others reach level 5. For me, it’s mostly a matter of control, either being controlled or being in control. On my own or with a vanilla partner, it’s difficult and rare that I’m able to reach level 4. Level 3 seems to be my norm and yes level 3 can be enjoyable and provide a degree of satisfaction. How would you rate your average orgasm? I suspect there are many who accept a level 3 to be more than it is -- after all if someone has never tasted chocolate it’s difficult for another to tell them how good it tastes. And orgasms are certainly far more complex than chocolate.
I believe it is impossible for anyone and I know it is impossible for me to reach level 5 alone or with a stranger. Therefore, I am seeking to meet with and develop a relationship with likeminded individuals who share a similar vision that I do and would be willing to work to build the necessary relationship needed for the two (or more) of us to travel up the road to level 5, together.
Having had a few successful trips to level 5, here are a few lessons that I have learned regarding what we might encounter and what attributes will make our trips more pleasurable. Often our journey will involve exploration of, for one or both of us, new and personally unchartered experiences and feelings. We will need to have a degree of trust with each other necessary to explore, accept and learn without hesitation. We will both need to learn to be patient since not all paths will lead us to our goal and we will need to be equally as adventurous because new routes will be needed to be found to continue to fan the fire that burns from within. Creativity and innovation and good communication skills are desirable qualities as well and I’m sure you are able to think of some others too.
For the skeptics or those that can’t imagine the intensity of level 5, the journey may be too difficult – they will lack the motivation for the pursuit and will be frustrated by the inevitable failures necessary. They will not be able to give or accept the corrective behavioral training needed to be led to the correct path that they themselves may no longer see. For some, they may fall into the trap of self-absorption. A trap that frequently will break the intimate connections and mutual synapses needed to provide the perfect mix of stimulations to the erogenous zones. It requires the perfect mix of pleasure, pain, phycology and control and you will know when you are moving at the correct pace and in the right direction because all of your senses will become heightened.
Yes the road to level 5 can be bumpy and sometimes fraught with setbacks necessitating course corrections and finding the perfect someone, who feels or learns you are perfect too isn’t easy either. But the rewards are simply out of this world, incredible. One trick is to be open minded….the right person is not always what you might visually or mentally believe is the one. They may be too tall or too short or too heavy or too thin or too young or too old. When seeking a traveling partner, the packaging is far less important that the contents.
I am a single, white, college educated, IT professional, very sane, attractive, sexually active and functional, scene savvy and experienced, creative and innovative man in my early 60’s and loving it; I am open minded, I have had a few pleasurable bisexual experiences with Dominant Woman led sessions. I am seeking adventurous explorers who are either a Dominant or Switch Woman or a Dominant or submissive TG/CD’s or a submissive man or a Dominant Woman/submissive man couple. Your race, religion, education or age is not important to me. I live in Arlington, VA. As a first step, I would suggest we arrange to meet at a Starbucks to check each other out and talk about what ever and then if it makes sense agree on the next step. |
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