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Male Dominant, 27, Toronto
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About lethrs64
Single NYC mostly sub and sometimes switch - largely self aware and open minded seeking to meet interesting people first and foremost. If there is more beyond that, I am all in.
I think I'm a-typical in the scene - looking to be involved and engaged on all levels.
I read and write, at the gym almost daily and love to cook. Admittedly here and now, not a fan of the vacuum or shopping, but its all part of the synergy right? I respect limits both as a top and bottom and expect mine to be respected as well.
Want to know more, let me know. Want to meet for a glass of wine (or scotch) happy to do that as well.
BTW - the pics in this profile are on the old side. Happy to share updated pics once we chat some.
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Wishing all a very happy new year. May 2013 be filled with all you hope (and then some). |
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Wishing all a happy and healthy 2012. Hopes that all who dream will see those desires fulfilled. |
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With hopes that all can have a very happy and healthy 20111. |
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That's just me, sitting on the dock of the bay, watching time. |
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OK, so maybe a bit of free time, but was clicking through profiles--and I have to wonder...
Those who list as Trans/Switch--isn't that kind of redundant? I know, I get it, but still--just strikes me as such. |
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Don't want to be a bah-humbug type I suppose--so a happy Christmas to all--and may everyone have a super new year.
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Just wondering why I tend to give a fuck when its not my turn....hmmm
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Not sure why just feeling very alone in a crowd right now--and at the end of the day, "Fuck It" has the right ring to it.
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for the first time in a very long time--i actually took a long
weekend--and basically was off the full weekend. i watched hockey on
saturday, football on sunday, and went to a hockey game on monday. my
"excuse" for this sudden self-indulgent largess was recovery from a
minor medical issue. granted, i was not off the grid. i did some work
over the weekend, answered some email and did the assortment of chats
and texting.
but it gave me some time to think--which generally
is never good. its hard to believe that in this day and age there is a
way for communications to breakdown. yet, that is exactly what has
happened.
and i shrink not the least bit from my role in this particular breakdown.
as
wednesday of last week came to a close, my thursday scheduled was
completely turned over and i had to quickly cancel plans. then i had to
be at the outpatient center of a hospital at 430 friday morning for the
above mentioned minor medical issue.
so with cell phones,
texting, email, im, twitter, myspace, 360, facebook--somehow
communication once again managed to get the best of me.
perhaps i am too connected? perhaps its too easy for me to just turn it all off? i don't know.
it
was funny, on monday at the hockey game someone asked me for a phone
number. first i dove through the phone book on my cell phone. when the
number was not there, i hit the phone book on my black berry--that is
when it hit me--there was a time when i actually remembered phone
numbers. now i can barely remember where i put a phone number.
communication
has never been a strong suit for me--but you'd think if nothing else, a
140 character twitter, or 160 character text would not be
impossible--yet somehow it is.
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Happy Holidays to all
and best wishes for a grand 2008
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i should say this right up-front so the right context is clear, no
matter how much i try not to be--at the end of the day, i am a dumb
guy.? there is nothing to be ashamed of there.? its easy for me to blow
a night watching hockey--from the east coast right across to the west
coast. over the summer, you'll find me out at a ball game more often
than not.
its simple, i get it--and is not intellectually challenging.
now
that is not to say that i am not one to avoid intellectual challenges.?
in fact, i embrace them--its just that there are times when you just
want to shut down--and be a dumb guy.
so, what happens?? there
is One out there who is most intriguing and is someone i'd like to get
to know better--see if there is a right connection.
so dumb guy
lethrd is now challenged--and in the internet age--so much of what is
said is "on the record" that there is a record to track.
so, when the One that you want to get to know more asks a pointed question:
???
What has been your history with relationships - have you ended a
majority of ??? them or vice versa? How do you intend to stop the cycle
of poisoning your relationships and self sabotaging your life....or do
you?
so
if i want to keep on track, and this is One perso i am interested
in--and i have promised Her i would answer all questions honestly--i
have to do the one thing dumb guys hate--look inward and? find the
answer.? and chances are its burried so deep within, that its not easy
to get there--which is why its burried in a space never to see the
light of day.
so, with a deep breath, you dig in--and venture
out inot an unprotected area--opening up, and hoping the instinct that
got you here is right....
so far, it has been.
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updated blog on 360, multiply and myspace
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back in nyc--and i have to admit, i had the chance in sf and la to check out some of the local scenes--and its a nice reminder to become more active here.? hope to see all the ny folks out and about--and those who are visiting too.
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i have a long week in ca-in san francisco through midweek, and la after that.
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wow...i can't believe its been since just after christmas that i added anything.
not sure that it matters all tha tmuch--but hey why not share, right?
i realized i go through phases of chatting with people--it happens here and in life. i am really good about keeping up for a few months, then i kind of drop out of everything--and a few months later, try to re-capture past relationships.
i guess its more evidence of why i have problems with relationships. right now though i am on a communication kick. so i am reading a lot of profiles and journals, and contacting what i hope are interesting people.
the responses are very interesting. Domme's who say one-liners are a sure way to have a note deleted respond that way. others who seem like they would be good matches don't respond...and others are so negative right up-front it makes sending a positive note tough.
anyway, just some random thoughts...and who knows perhaps another try at a relationship or two.
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Here is hoping 2006 is a grand year for A/all. May all of Y/your wishes come true. Now who has a new year's resolution? and who is just resolute for the new year? |
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It seems like this is the right time to wish all a very happy and healthy holiday season.
May everyone's hopes and desires be realized...
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So here is an update, and perhaps it can be called a lesson learned?
there was a time, i had a pretty nice relationship with a Domme who has a profile here (W/we knew each other prior to my joining here).
well, i took advantage of our relationship, and well, that never goes so well.
so i manage to find another Domme (this one is not on this site) and W/we kind of hit it off some...and things are going ok.
like i have a need to poison my own relationships--i take advantage, and out the door i went...
so one would hope by now i understand all of this, and could manage to be in a relationship--who knows?
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i admit, i am new to this. i saw this site cross posted elsewhere, and thought why not take a look. it is interesting. i hope to meet some like minded, and interesting folks. and who knows, perhaps i could end up saying, "yes Mistress." |
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