First of all, let's make sure I don't waste anyone's time - I am absolutely NOT looking for:

-Anyone overweight. I am fit, and I expect at least reasonable fitness from you.
-Anyone with a bunch of tattoos and/or piercings. (small tat or 2 is ok)
-Anything remotely resembling Goth
-Anyone who can't spell (pet peeve)

I am looking for an intelligent, secure submissive that, while maintaining her own life and interests, wishes to be controlled and used sexually. I'm very much into erotic discipline enforced through bondage, spanking, whipping, etc. I will expect complete physical submission (within the limits of no kids/blood/scat/animals), all while maintaing the outward appearance of a vanilla relationship.

Open to casual adventures or something more regular. Not specifically looking for LTR but it's not out of the question with the right person.

Since this is my first go at internet matchmaking of any kind, I am not posting a picture, nor will I send one to anyone on line. If this is a deal breaker to anyone that's unfortunate. I am not ugly, overweight, three-eyed, or a slob; rather I recognize the unfortunate fact that our lifestyle is still considered deviant by the majority, and so discretion is not out of place here. If you are curious enough, you can see what I look like when we meet ;P