Collarspace.com

Life brings us lessons. Whether we learn from them are not is up to us. This lifestyle has something for everyone. It takes time to know yourself an your needs. Alas such sites as castlerealm are gone, but others have taken its place. Many in this life think that its about pleasing any and all Masters/Doms. That sex with any all Doms is what being a submissive or a slave is about. And you know for most that's just fine.
I/We have talked to many over the years that find Masters they can top from the bottom so they can be shared among many men.
If you wish sex and a beating, There's thousands of men on this and other sex sites to accommodate you.
If you want to learn about you, if you need to grow. If you want to expand your mind , continue learning and growing then we would enjoy talking to you. We have real lives, we work, have a real life, enjoy life. Yes we love BDSM and Discipline.
Do you feel happy serving others? Do you like being or becoming your best? Even if you have some esteem issues do you feel being treated like family and cared about is better than being treated like trash?
There are many Master's who would never share their lawnmower but share their slave/submissive. And for most you know that's ok. It's not us nor will be. we are a real , attractive in a normal way couple, you should be real and care about your health and self. NOT perfect but wish to learn about yourself and be as good as you can be. we have Domestic Discipline experience as well , but its not role play or a game.


10/14/2011 10:52:13 AM
Ok , so what do we offer? We are good people, we are good friends. We learned a lot of lessons along the way. If you are not one who reads, enjoys and ponders history, then you'll have to make your own mistakes. Nothing says you can't be a Christian or good person and enjoy your ass whipped. We are not swingers, swappers etc. If you are good for you. There's slot of folks on this, alt dot com, etc. We enjoy sex, we have an incredible sex life and love. It took my slave a long time to like and love herself. We offer knowledge. We have a good home. We have jobs, we do housework, we have kids so we have balance. It means if you came into such a home, there will be expectations placed on you.
10/14/2011 10:27:58 AM
It's much easier to be driven 80 miles an hour into oblivion, than to hike uphill, even with a teacher at your side. It's flattering men want to see or use your cunt or breasts, when you don't like yourself. Amazingly, it's much easier to have lines in sand, and let others convience you that to be a slave you must break rules. There are many very good schools on being a slave. Learning protocols, being whipped by Masters and Misstresses. Is your best being used by many men for sex? True love is sitting on a computer master sting for others? It's a whole lot easier than reading, than studying. Self reflection is hard. Topping some Dom and pulling gang bangs is easier. Who are you? What do you need? You have these answers at 19? Amazing? A Dom with online masterbation skills knows you? Sees your soul? Have the desire to learn? Want and need discipline? There's many good sites like literotica. Don't have imagination? Guess what maybe you are not like most here. Guess what you are normal. Really you are. Respect is earned. Is courtesy that hard to give? The link above was reprinted from castle realm, about are you a sub... Let your heart guide you.
10/12/2011 10:36:25 AM

We enjoy good sarcasm. Humor. RUDE is just rude though. I'm really glad lots of men enjoy rude slaves and submissives.  I wonder how many of you would enjoy living with another person just like yourself? Do you really like you? I hope so. Truly.

 

You don't do housework...ok great... as part of a family everyone pitches in, does their share, has a real life.

Great if you want a life talking on the phone and internet, having sex with lots of folks, don't like reading, you can watch porn.

There's still people who work hard, raise good kids, love family and expect more.
Somewhere there are submissives who want to be THEIR Best. Who crave learning , who want love with good sex.
No one wants perfect, but who wants mediocrity or a generic slut? Must be lots of people?

 

 

10/12/2011 10:00:12 AM

Learning: It's different for everyone and should be a personal experience.

 

This is a link to an OLD journal about "am I a submissive? ".   It's a good first step.

 

http://kinktoychest.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=66&Itemid=66

 

Look, most people want to be punished by being FORCED to be spanked or have sex with many men. IN other words you disobey and you get what you want... 

Few want discipline. ONLY a very few want corporal discipline because it's what they need? How many masochists really want a Dom who knows their needs? and rewards them with pain?  A true sadist wants to inflict terror, they want a victim who hates pain. 

 

There's many groups in every large city to train you to be a generic slave. To have sex with lots of "Masters". Many ads on this and other sites seeking trained slaves, sluts, submissives for beatings and bad sex.

 

Being a slave, being part of a family, having expecations and discipline is not easy. It's a lot easier to find Doms whom you top, get what you want.