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I am a 36 year old bisexual BBW. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. I am very proud of my sexuality and have no trouble expressing it fully without shame. I am married though my husband wants nothing to do with this part of me. I was in the BDSM scene for years before trying to step away from it years ago for my husband. I succeeded for a few years but this lifestyle is part of who I am and have found my way back home once again. I am very honest and open with all I do and say.

I consider myself a Switch.

I have had male submissives and female submissives in real life and online. I am very strong and stern, but loving when in a Dominant role. I enjoy numerous types of play from whips to humiliation. This is my Dominant side and definiately the side that comes easiest to me.

I do however have a submissive side as well. It is however not one easily seen. There has only been one man that was able to bring this side out in me. I am however looking to find that side of myself again if the right person comes along. It will though take a very gifted and strong person to bring this out in me. I am full of fire and spirit and will not let anyone extinquish those flames in me. So if you think you are up the the challenge then so be it, but do not expect me to kneel without it being earned. This side of me is what I am looking for right now. I am not looking to fulfill my Dom side. I miss being a submissive to a strong intelligent man. I know however finding this man will be very hard because of the Dom inside me.

I am looking to find a way back into the BDSM world in real time, not online cybering. My husband will not be privy to this though so do not ask me to tell him. This is a side that I need and that he hates in me so I will not include him in this life.

I am not interested in gamers so do not waste my time or yours. Do not drop at my feet and submit when I do not even know you as I will spit on you for it. Do not be a Dom and expect me just to kneel for you, it will not happen unless it has been fully earned. I DO NOT WANT GAMES NOR DO I PLAY THEM.



subtleblonde
 
 Age: 36
  Maryland