The Indian BDSM scene sucks. Most men who r out here are just seeking a sexual partner with no clue about the Sm lifestyle. Almost all responses received are from gay men looking for casual sex. SAD. BDSM is a lifestyle and either u a Dom or not this is not a way of finding sexual partners. I dont do GAY men so dont send me messages posing as women. BDSM is about Domination and submission not just getting a woman to have sex. BDSM is not necessarily about sex. I am totally unsure if there are any women on here.