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Looking for friendship, conversation and a connection. I'm trying to figure out where i fit...a sub, a switch...who knows! I know I have a lot to offer and i'm hoping to find that ultimate connection, but in the meantime i'm looking for enjoyment, excitement and entertainment. Ultimately, I would love to find that perfect relationship with both a vanilla side and a kinky side I believe everyone is looking for the piece of the puzzle. That person that can finish their sentences and is a team player. And I know a lot of people on here believe that a couple shouldn't be a team rather a coach and player. Someone above the other. But I believe the best Dom is someone who can lead without the sub feeling slighted. I think a Dom should lead with the Sub's best interest at heart not just pushing his dominance on every decision and choice. A Dom should understand the amount of sacrifice that a Sub makes and should appreciate that. They shouldn't take that for granted. I am an alpha female in my daily life. I work in a position that I am self-directing, I run my house on my own, I raise my child alone. I am able to function as my own person and I do well at it. That being said, I do want someone to share that with. I want something to take care of me but not take complete control of me. I want someone who will slide right into my life and fit. I know this makes me a rare sub, one who still wants to have some say in what my life is like. But I believe a weak man controls a woman without regard for her; a strong man leads a woman and still earns her respect. And I only say this because I've had some people infer that I'm hiding something since I don't have a face picture on my profile...the actual reason is that I have a profession that requires my CM side to remain private.