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i have been in the lifestyle for about 20 years.
I was in a M/s relationship for about 8 years - he passed about 3 years ago. I've been divorced for longer than I've been kinky. Due to personal health issues, I kinda left the active lifestyle for a while, but am making my way back.
I want to play, and make friends, and just get out there as "just me" again, and see where this ride takes me. If something developes that is more than just friendship, I am open to that. But I am not approaching any new friend with the idea that it will go that direction. Please don't either. I won't submit to you over coffee. Honest!
I am not looking for Long Distance Relationships, nor a "discreet" *that is - hidden* relationship. Don't waste either of our time if you want or need either of those.
I am involved in the social activities of the "public" lifestyle and would expect people I connect with to be so also, at least enough to be able to attend. I am "vanilla" at my job and my home area - but that is not the same as being hidden. If you are married, please just move on.
The blue is what I wrote 2.5 years ago - Most of it is still true. I've found some wonderful friends, in and out of the lifestyle, and have a good relationship with a really awesome sadist and his wife. They live 5hrs away. So - what happened to no married and no LD ? Well, they are friends. Have been for years, will always be friends. I still have no interest in trying to develop a long term relationship with someone married. The distance thing ... well... I'm more open than I was to that. :)
I'm not seriously looking yet - but I am seriously considering it.
That's my update - Thanksgiving 2010.
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