leenievale on Collarspace

I had a submissive once who wanted to be treated like dirt. ?I just can't do it. ?What use is dirt to me? ?I feel the same way about my submission..

Made a profile here hoping to find ?a Daddy/Dominant. ?I'm a bit lacking in the play and cerebral/service part of my kink at the moment. ?I am collared to my Ma'am, but she understands my need for a male.. influence. ?Anything?formal (like a collar) would have to be run by her first.

And as much as I'm missing the Daddy/Dom stuff, submissive men are just so much fun to play with! ?Not counting you out, boys. ?:)

And girls are just awesome, though I get giddy and shy and never make the first move cuz I'm a big weiner.

I've been involved in the BDSM community for about 7 years now. ?The kink and queer communities are a big part of my life and who I am.

Found out I was diabetic about 2 years ago. Lost 80 lbs since. Just joined a gym to lose the rest of it, so that's taking up a lot of my time now. ?

I'm a loud, obnoxious, (not as) fat girl who has no problem saying exactly how she feels, no filter... I'm very shy and outgoing (sometimes both at once). ?Majorly sarcastic, a bit too honest for my own good.?

As far as what I'm looking for right now, I'm pretty flexible and open to all kinds of scenarios. I'm open to any kind of relationship as long as both sides agree what kind of relationship that is. You just want a fuck buddy? Tell me that instead of pretending this is going somewhere it's not. You want an emotional connection? Tell me, so that I don't look like an ice queen when I hold back that part of myself. Just please... no games, no bullshit.

And let me say, casual sex partners are people too! Just because I'm not your girlfriend doesn't mean you get to treat me like I'm not a person (unless that's pre-negotiated... but that's different, hehe).?

I want to be around someone who is passionate about something. Doesn't have to be passionate about me (major plus, though!), but something! Talk my ear off about that car you built from scratch, tell me about that awesome hiking adventure you went on! I may not know cars, and man do I hate hiking, but it's worth hearing to see your eyes light up and you start talking with your hands. Ok that sounds totally weird, but I'm leaving it on my profile anyway.?

I secretly want to be the chick. I know this is a little un-feminist of me, but I can be a pretty aggressive, strong-willed girl. And I usually end up taking the lead. I don't mind it, I just wish there was someone more aggressive, more strong-willed, so that I feel like the woman every once in a while.