leatherboii

About leatherboii

Introduction
It is said that everyone has a twin out there somewhere in the world. Many interpret this to mean that there is a person out there somewhere that looks identical to us. In a similar vein, I like to believe that this can also apply to those seeking their spiritual partner in kink. Finding that special person, however, can be as challenging as locating that identical twin. I think that to find our kin in kink, we must search hard and for as long as necessary. For some, this takes a level of effort which can take too long with little gain. But as with everything else in life, there are no guarantees. Yet, the rewards of finding that special soulmate in kink are usually reserved for those blessed with the gift of patience and dogged persistence. To give up the search means giving up any hope of finding that most wondrous woman who can fill my life with such profound meaning and depth.
It is for that very reason that I continue my search for my partner in kink.

Just who is this leatherboii and why the heck would I want to know him?
You’ll just have to wait for the book to come out in publication now won’t you, silly girl?! Just kidding! Let me save us some time by being forthright and direct with you here. Before saying who I am, let me start by saying what I am. I am a leather fetishist who loves wearing and being with a woman who also wears shiny black leather outfits and uniforms. There! I said it! Whew!
As for who I am, well, like most human beings, I live out my vanilla life in a variety of traditional roles. Outwardly, I strike most as affable and charming, someone who is well-versed on a variety of subjects and able to articulate his thoughts with clarity and insight. In terms of how I view myself, I strive to be a man of integrity, sincerity, and compassion. I’ve always felt it necessary to be a reliable source of comfort to family and friends, someone who can be depended upon to help when needed.
I have a number of hobbies. Backyard astronomy is one. There’s something awe-inspiring and magical about the immensity and beauty of a clear night sky when the stars and planets perform their brilliant heavenly dance.
Another is crafts and machine sewing. I like to create rare military uniforms for my ‘Little Army.’ I will research extensively and tend to focus on making those that are not commercially available. My last creation was the ‘Kremlin Guard’, replete with gray double-breasted overcoat lined with golden brass buttons, girded by a yellow cloth belt and shoulder cords for that added touch (but I digress…)
Those who know me know I am a voracious reader. Military history has long been a passion and shall forever remain so. I maintain a large library of works devoted to this field as well as memorabilia. In addition to my native English, I am also fully fluent in French. To familiarize myself with sources written in foreign languages, I developed an advanced proficiency in Russian, along with a basic reading comprehension of German.

So what am I looking for in a kinky partner?
Fetish
As I noted above, I am a leather fetishist who loves wearing and being with a woman who also wears shiny black leather outfits and uniforms. It has been my experience that women with a genuine leather fetish are rare, but they do exist, thankfully. What do I mean by genuine? Well, a fetishist will be proactive in their collection and use of leatherwear. They understand that leather is an important source of arousal and will usually command near-hypnotic attention when seen. Like the shining stars of the black night sky I mentioned earlier, there is something magical and awe-inspiring about the sight of shiny black leather.
Please understand that it is not imperative that you be a fetishist. What is important is that you are open to wearing it during play. Don’t worry about not owning anything or being unable to buy leather outfits; I can provide any leather clothing or items we need to make our experience more enjoyable.
Of all the various things that make up an outfit or uniform, for me, the most attractive accessories are shiny black leather gloves and tall boots. I feel an intoxicating rush of power when donning leather. Conversely, I weaken at the sight of a woman garbed in tall shiny black leather boots and gloves. I guess that makes me a true switch.
Roleplaying
As a switch, I revel in being able to play any role, whether it be as one cowering before the boots of a towering dominant or, conversely, as one taking charge of a naked quivering submissive who is due for her spanking. Some themes I find highly erotic are the biker, policeman/policewoman, German interrogator, etc. Though I am neither submissive nor dominant exclusively—at least in the purist sense—the power dynamic usually present during roleplay, nonetheless, is one I feel contributes to the excitement and atmosphere of play. Setting is nice too, but not always available. For instance, I have a scenario I call the “Black Benediction” where a priest (sub) is seduced by a leather-clad demoness, complete with horns and tail atop an altar in an abandoned church among candles and background chanting. As erotic as it sounds, realistically, it is not likely that an abandoned church can be used to play out such scenarios. Nonetheless, I think it better to know that our imagination and creativity can operate at a level well above what we can do.
Monogamy or Polygamy?
Here is the possible deal breaker. I want to put this out front, so we understand one another’s situation.
I am married to a woman 20 years my senior, a woman who has long lost her sex drive and has given me full sanction to pursue my interests outside. While I was not happy about this initially, I realize I have no real choice. She is someone I deeply care about and do not want to leave. She understands that it is unreasonable to force me to live in a state of involuntary abstinence. By granting me this, I am thus sparred of all the jealousy and drama associated with traditional monogamous relationships.
If given a choice, I would prefer a long-term play partner who will eventually evolve into my eternal lover/companion/soulmate. Life is complicated, I know, so if your personal circumstances are one that makes that unlikely, we can still talk about it. For instance, if you’re married, but your husband is fine with you pursing things outside the marital bounds, then we’ll discuss further.
If you’re single, have no children or commitments, great! If you’re single, but have children who still live at home, we can talk, but please understand that regular alone time is needed, even if it is every other week or so.
I have had one kink partner since the agreement. She was a great lady, about my age, who enjoyed indulging my leather fetish while playing the dominant role. Unfortunately, my kink partner had serious health issues. All three of us were very happy with how things were going until my partner passed away from complications due to diabetes.

A Parting Comment
If anything I’ve said above appeals to you, I would invite you to contact me. I should note here that as much as I welcome and appreciate your efforts to get to know me, long distance relationships rarely ever, if ever, work. I enjoy my life here in beautiful California and am not in a position to move away. I would not want you to move here either, for if things did not work out, it would deeply sadden me to see you move back home while knowing you went through such trouble.
It would be preferable that you live within 60-90 minutes’ drive from the Lodi-Stockton area of central California.
If you decide to move forward and write me, I ask that you provide a brief bio with a message explaining why you’re writing me, starting with what part of my post most appealed to you.
Don’t be afraid, come to me, tell me who you are, and let’s see what wonders the future holds for you and me.