Seeking Dominant Playmate(s) ***Just an update: I cannot respond to all messages. Please don't take it personally. I had no idea of the amount of messages I'd be receiving. I can guarantee though, that you won't get a response if you don't have a pic of yourself in your profile, or attach one in your initial message*** I am creative, intelligent, worldy and strong; A big, buxom "Alpha" female. I'm also very feminine and very submissive, with a positive, almost childlike approach to life. My marriage of 14 years is an open one (my husband's profile is floating around here, somewhere :)) but we are not looking to play with others as a couple. My husand and I have dabbled in BDSM over the years, but there is a lot that I'm still curious about. There are many things that turn me on in theory, which I've never had a chance to practice. I am looking for experienced dominant playmates, who can help me to "broaden my BDSM horizons". My freedom and my time are very important to me, so I'm not looking to be owned by anyone. LTR is okay, though (When you find something good, why stop? Right?) but I'm basically looking for friendships...with benefits, of course. I am also very intersted in socializing and attending local BDSM events. Being new to this world, I'm having a ball, discovering so many people with similar sensibilities. This community seems to have no shortage of brilliant and fascinating people. The more I interact with other "kinksters", the more my suspicion is confirmed: That the exploration and possibly, the embrace of this lifestyle is the natural progression in an examined life, lived to the fullest. So chat me up, take me out, spank me hard or all of the above. It's your call...