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Male Dominant, 36, Seacoast Area, New Hampshire
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About LearnAndGrow
This profile may be a little tame compared to what is posted on this site, but then, so am I.
I am 37 years old. I spent the first ten years out of high school allowing the introvert within me to dominate my life. I didnt date. I didnt go out with friends. I stayed at home and watched movies television. I wrote and played games. I hung out with my family.
A part of me wants to continue to live that dormant life, but another part (an increasingly more pressing part) wants to go out into the world and see it for myself, not just read about it in a book.
I am not a fetish obsessed woman looking for her next bedmate or TPE. Im not looking for hook ups or affairs. I am looking for someone who can bring out the adventurous girl I always thought I would be. Yes, I want to explore the fetish world, but more importantly, I am looking for a connection -- someone whose company I enjoy, and who brings out the best version of myself.
For me, vanilla is very important and I am much more interested in learning about that side to a person than the BDSM side. Fetish, for me, should be explored within the confines of ones own home, and with someone I am interested in exploring it with. I am looking for someone who can blend BDSM into a vanilla life.
In terms of fantasy, I gravitate toward the 1950s, Taken in Hand, Ds types. Im not a masochist and Im not looking for someone who just wants to hurt me. I am looking for someone who can drive, tempt, and inspire me. I would really appreciate a man who doesnt mind a project. Im new to this world and will need some training up.
I am also a BBW. If that doesnt appeal to you, I understand, but I wanted to put out there that even though I dont mind being a larger woman, Im not looking for someone who desires to keep me large. I aspire to a healthier weight and lifestyle, and if I can find someone who has similar aspirations, or a desire to guide me toward those goals, that would be ideal!
For the most part, I am wide open on experiences, but things that endanger my life, my partners life, or break the law dont interest me at all.
A few facts about me
I have a full time job and work four days a week.
I have three cats I love and they are not negotiable.
I live west of the cascades.
I dream of eventually replacing all pants in my wardrobe with dresses and skirts.
I drink rarely and never smoke.
I am *not* 4-2-0 friendly.
I have never gone out on a real date.
I have had only two sexual partners.
Ive only had one orgasm during sex.
I wish everyone the best of luck on finding what theyre looking for.
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