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| It?s about the power exchange. Whether it?s for one night, or on an ongoing basis. I want to offer you my submission and have you accept it. I don?t need to be ?trained.? I don?t need rituals and protocols. All I need is to know that something would please you, and I will find a way to do it.
It?s about the arbitrariness of the exercise of power. Whether you are kind or cruel, it?s two sides of the same coin. The choice is yours. Because I?ve given it to you, given you the power over my experience.
It?s about the loss of self. Breaking down the psychological and social construct that seems so important. Sub-space, getting there from pain, or from domination, or from humiliation, is about existing in a bubble of sensation and emotion.
It?s about the loss of control. I want to be in your hands.
It?s an adventure. And both people have to feel it. You have to need my submission as much as I need to offer it. You have to look into my eyes and drink it up. You have to want it.
But it?s not to be taken lightly. I like rough sex, and I?d like a playmate. I can bottom to the right person. Hairpulling, slapping, name calling. Implements. Some quick and dirty bondage ? I have no patience for shibari. Those are fine, and those are fun, and I still need someone who?s intelligent, with a sharp sense of humor, who?s brutal in bed but kind outside of it. But to go further into the submission, that takes time, and it takes trust, and I?m not advertising for that on Collarme. If it happens, that would be great, but you can?t put it on a list or place an order.
So if you are willing to accept the limits that need to be in place when we don?t know each other well, if you?re willing to have rough sex and maybe some fun dates, then we can see where things go.
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