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| Wow I apologize, tonight I realized that the vast majority of my emails I was receiving were actually going to bulk. Sorry if you felt that I blew you off after writing you. That was not my intention at all. I usually respond to everyone except really pushy people.
I'm in the process of rewriting this to better reflect who I am and what I'm actually seeking. But for now I can say I take things and people as they come, and I believe the whole purpose of this lifestyle is to establish trust. I find myself drawn to the idea of leadership and obedience as a whole, and it matters less to me what exact role I myself take in that process. My role varies as much as the people I meet and interact with. Beyond that, I'm a Christian and that comes first for me, above and beyond this 'lifestyle', and is also a key factor for me in establishing trust, since I tend to view things spiritually and feel the truth of a matter before I can articulate it. I'm looking for someone like me in this regard, not that you yourself must be Christian, but that you must at least have a good sense of other people and their needs and wants, a high level of compassion for others, and a low level of judgment for them, since this is how I myself am. I'm the type to leave well enough alone.
When someone is stronger than me, I typically bow to them. But when someone is less take charge, I tend to step up to take the lead. Interestingly, I've noticed that I tend to be the opposite of most female switches, in that I feel that I tend to be more dominant with men, yet more submissive with other women. For many the opposite pattern seems to be common. Yet I can do both well with someone I trust implicitly, regardless of gender. So I am interested in getting to know you for who you are and then moving beyond that accordingly. If it's not right, I'm still glad to have made a friend.
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