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lavieboheme

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Female Submissive, 28
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lavieboheme - Female Submissive,  North Carolina | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About lavieboheme

Despite my age, I have been very involved with BDSM and D/s my entire teenage and adult life. I am looking for someone that has a lot of experience. I do not want someone that is "new" to the scene or has only been doing it for a few years. This does not mean that I am looking for someone in their 50's+. If you are 28, but have been learning and studying BDSM since you were 14, I can deal with that. On the other hand, if you are 45 and have been in the scene for the last 10 years, that means you would have started when you were 35.... Something about that bothers me. I want someone that is naturally Dominant and knew who they were from an early age. I also need someone that can transition well between vanilla settings and kink settings. To the general public, family, and friends they are the perfect gentleman. Behind closed doors, he would be my Dominant, Master, Owner, Sadist, etc. I'm starting to wonder if what I want is too much to ask, but then I feel as though I should not settle for anything less than what I want. Just because I am submissive does not mean I have to lower my standards. I hope everyone finds what they are looking for. (And yes I just ended a sentence with a preposition. Deal with it. ;-) )


PS: I am not interested if you do not live relatively close... I've done the long distance thing and it is not fun.


PSS: I'm done with my days of being with men that are 50+. I am not looking for a long term partner in that age range. It is not realistic for me, at this point in my life.
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