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| Cautious Polyamorous Submissive Seeking Attentive Secondary Relationship (bdsm experience a plus) About Me: Until about 5 years ago I believed that the goal of a submissive was to make sure that dinner is on the table every evening before 6:30. The last few years have been enlightening. My current dominant husband carefully nurtured my submissive nature and I have bloomed rather nicely (if I do say so myself). I married my soulmate. We consider ourselves “poly” and are both open to secondary partners. HiroProtagonist has given me his permission and blessing to explore here (yes, I am blessed). So the net result is that I am expanding my horizons, safely online for now. Perhaps there really is a secondary play partner in my future… I’m Looking For: If I could go online and build a perfect secondary, he would understand that the key to my heart (and body) is my mind. Stimulate my mind and everything else follows. He will respect my boundaries while pushing my limits. He will be a skilled guide and teacher. He will honor my marriage. He will be a trusted friend and playmate. He shares my enthusiasm for travel, good rope, fine food, erotic literature, live theatre, and all the . It would be helpful if he included both a subject and predicate in most of his sentences, had finished reading a real book since the end of the 20th century, and understood the importance of honest and open communication, even when it is not nice or convenient. What you can expect from me: Those who know me well would describe me as creative, good under pressure, and adventuresome. I reluctantly admit to being a tad obsessive and compulsive. I fully understand the importance of discretion, but insist on honesty. I will not be “the other woman”. I take an intellectual approach to almost everything I do. I have no interest in being 24/7 anything to anyone, however, should we decide to share our time, talent or treasures we will both be rewarded. Just a few things that make my eyes roll: I honor and respect all kinds of play. For me personally, I have to draw the line at being a slave. I have no problem submitting to a demanding Dom or bottoming to a trusted top – but I am not now nor will I ever be a slave. Also, when I identify as poly please ask for an explanation or definition instead of showing your inexperience or lack of knowledge by asking something like “Does your husband know you’re poly”? And the final four, don’t ask for pictures in the first paragraph of our initial conversation, don’t assume I will do anything without negotiation, don’t ask me to keep secrets from my husband, and don’t destroy the bond of trust by testing my hard limits. P.s. I really have heard all of the lamb jokes. Yes, there is real mint jelly in my refrigerator and no I have never laid down on Broadway. It is actually a term of endearment from my childhood.
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Offline for about 2 months while I get caught up on some things and center my life a bit..
Happy Lent to all |
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"Love concentrates so intently on another that you forget yourself at that moment. Attention says, 'I value you enough to give you my most precious asset - my time'".
Hiro, I will be yours totally for an entire week
2 days till vacation
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I'm having a cynical evening:
"By the time you swear you're his, Shivering and sighing, And he vows his passion is Infinite, undying Lady, make a note of this: One of you is lying"
Dorothy Parker,
"Unfortunate Coincidence"
4 Days till Vacation |
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"Give in to love, or live in fear."
Mimi Marquez, "Another Day", Rent
6 Days till Vacation |
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"At times it is strangely seductive to know the extent of your own powerlessness."
Erica Jong
7 Days till Vacation |
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"Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy - in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room for the other".
Jubal Harshaw
Robert Heinlein in
Stranger In A Strange Land
10 Days Till Vacation |
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"Everyone can be great because anyone can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't even have to make your subject and verb agree to serve...You only need a heart full of grace, a soul generated by love."
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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"The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender."
Emil Ludwig |
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"There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread."
- Mother Teresa |
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This time I'm off to Europe where Hiro and I will explore... Back in a few weeks
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My life is truly blessed... HiroProtagonist and I made a pledge to each other to take care of our relationship by escaping on occasion. This Weekend We Escape.. NYC, Broadway, Waterfalls, and a Play Space for a few hours on Saturday. I wonder which motif he selected...
No more postings till Sunday :) |
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Thank you HiroProtagonist for giving me something to ponder today:
"Women, I suspect, even proud, beautiful, intelligent women, secretly wish their men to be strong, and upon occasion to prove it to them, commanding them as mere females, giving them no choice but to do precisely as He wishes"... Page 177 Assasin or Gor
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I'm needing my batteries recharged -- so I am escaping both my kink and vanilla life and going to Disney! I should be fully recharged by the 10th. |
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Just wondering -
Why is it always this or that when I would much prefer this and that? |
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| Age: 21 |
| Nottingham,
United Kingdom |
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