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Male Dominant, 30
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Female Submissive, 40, Lawton, OK, Oklahoma
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About lala3306
My profile can be seen in a more updated fashion on f(remove me)e(remove me)t(remove me)life(remove me).com
Speak with me in English or French.
Chinese very limited.
☯ Introduction
Kink (and BDSM more particularly) has been part of my life since I was a teenager. It was a personal thing, kept in my mind and in the cyber-space. And only as a consumer of information – and I consumed a lot. And then there was the occasion, that led to experiment. The time spent exploring allowed me to discover, understand acceptance, accept and finally embrace BDSM.
I have always kept an open mind with a critical eye, challenging myself all the time, finding my limits, being patient and considerate. Ears and eyes open, I keep my senses in alert as much as I can, in the play or not.
☯ My play style
I am a switch. Deep down, I know I have this ambivalence, even if I never had the occasion to explore submission.
So far, my dominant side prevails, reason why I would more often that not actually identify as such.
My interests are various: rope bondage, floggers and impact play… I am always eager to try new things: for me, BDSM is much more than a physical play, it is about connection and intimacy - it brings stronger thrill to power exchange when the tension is built up.
I evolve within boundaries.
In rope bondage, I am a bit obsessed with the consistency of the end result. However, I tend to balance this obsession, so that the outcome would make everyone in the play satisfied. Lately, my tying style is more sensual, less technical.
In D/s, I like being the gentleman dominant. I am not the obviously primal type, or the primarily sadistic type. I like taking care of my partner, and from an external point of view it could even sometimes look like I am the servant. But don’t get it wrong: this is not a service that I give, and most of the times, in fact, I get to be served ; ideally there is no room for refusal.
I am a pleaser, my sadistic side is real but somehow limited - just don't let it fool you into thinking that it would make me less of a dominant.
I believe in taking baby steps, physically and also emotionally, and highly respect other's limits. Communication is an essential element, which enables the play partners to have a better understanding about each other’s limits and interests. I like taking things slow, sometimes very slow, and build the tension before the final release.
What is important is the journey, not the destination.
☯ More...
⊱ My preferences
In terms of play partners’ preference, there is *NONE*. Or almost: it's case-by-case.
I am open to play with various type of people, and explore things together. I don't believe that "one is better or worse than another" but I prefer to use the word "different".
It actually matches how I function in my life: try and ask me "What is your favourite…" and you will be more likely disappointed by the answer.
I appreciate nothing in particular, I tend to like everything particular.
⊱ Finally, a bit more...
I am sensitive, analytical, adventurous yet safety-concerned and challenge-driven. I have routines yet I am very much unpredictable.
I am straight - I'd love to be bisexual, but all the attempts, experiences or tries to have more than friendly contact with people sharing my gender were fruitless because of how I felt at the moment, regardless of my wishes.
Freedom is something I can't live without now, but I would wonder how one, when one, who, would make me want to surrender my freedom.
The future is full of possibilities.
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