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Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
First, let me tell you what I'm not. I'm not all that young anymore. I'm not thin and beautiful. I'm definitely not the "trophy slave" who will look great dressed in tight spandex or the one you will be proud to show off naked. I'm not a pain slut.
I'm actually overweight, tall and a bit of a klutz. I'm also deeply submissive, have a sense of humor, can carry on a conversation (on many topics) and a constantly growing and evolving person.
What I'm searching for is a bit harder to nail down. I'm searching for a relationship that is about so much more than the kinky sex. I want to find a relationship that will provide a safe, drama free, loving and accepting place to thrive. I want to find an Owner who is willing and able to provide structure, consistency and who has high expectations. I want to find someone who is naturally dominant and knows what he wants so there isn't a constant power struggle or searching to find out how to manage a slave. I want to be pushed a little to learn and grow and become more than I am right now.
I'm not in a huge rush to find a relationship. I'm actually quite content where I am now, with many personal goals and interests. However, I know that the right Owner will allow me a whole new freedom in my slavery.
Thank you for reading. I welcome any questions, comments or suggestions.
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What ever happened to common decency and basic respect. It seems that many so called Dominants feel it only goes one way. I disagree. I submit because I choose to, not because I'm incapable of taking care of myself. Don't get me wrong, I don't think of my submission as a huge "gift" any more than dominance is a gift. One doesn't really matter without the other, at least in my mind. What I do believe in, very strongly, however, is that basic manners should be standard. Honesty, follow through and communication should be the standard not the rare exception. Just because I am a slave doesn't mean that everyone who calls themselves a Dom/me can treat me like they own me, and honestly, the one who eventually does own me, would probably not ever dream of the rudeness and disrespectful attitude that so many here seem to find acceptable. |
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Perhaps I am just high maintenance, as has been suggested. But it is really an unreasonable expectation that there would be some follow through and consistency on the part of the Dominant? If an instruction is important enough to be given, shouldn't it be enforced? Yes, I accept and agree that a good submissive should always strive to be pleasing and shouldn't need minute to minute micromanagement but there has to be a balance, in my opinion...but maybe this is just a character flaw on my part.
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Things have been incredibly difficult lately. A dear friend was injured in Afghanistan.
Despite the heroic efforts of the wonderful medical professionals, multiple surgeries and fervent prayers he died of his injuries.
The world has lost a courageous soldier, passionate defender of the helpless, a modern renaissance man, truly exceptional Master and dearest friend.
I'll miss you always, Tom. Rest in Peace.
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Please don't assume that just because I want to have a connection with my Owner, and enjoy spending time and just being with him, that I don't want to be owned.
I've come to the conclusion that life is too short to surround yourself with people you don't like and respect.
I don't think that spending a quiet night curled up on the couch, having a good conversation, or reading a book, means that I am not a slave.
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I have to clarify something that wasn't stated in my profile. If you are married your wife either has to know and accept your relationship with a slave, or (even better) has to be involved with the relationship.
I am not being judgmental about married folks here it is just something that doesn't work for me.
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