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About LAandBayAreaDom
Hello Everyone. This is not my first profile. I have been on and off this site a few times. It's sometimes too much of a chore dealing with all the fakers out there.
I have been involved in the S&M scene since I was 14. I've had the opportunity to experiment with a variety of roles, and I have discovered that being dominant is the right role for me.
Now I will tell you what I am looking for. I am looking for a self-identifying submissive or slave girl close to my age and near either L.A. or the Bay Area. This girl must have a strong appetite for BDSM play though experience is not so important. She must be able to take on a variety of different roles:
In public she must be able to be the perfect girlfriend. She will be romantic and sweet. We will get to know each other's friends and be able to interact well in vanilla situations.
In private she must be able to take on three roles: the independent woman, the obedient slave, and the pain slut.
As an independent woman, I expect her to be remain submissive to me, but not sacrifice her will. She will make her own decisions. She will communicate her beliefs even if we disagree. She will be self-reliant and strong, and if this is not who she naturally is, I will help her to be this way. Self-confidence is key.
As an obedient slave, she will work to serve me. She will follow orders. This will involve elements of sexual slavery, domestic slavery, and general obedience. Not only will she obey commands, she will actively work to anticipate my needs and desires and fulfill them without being told to do so. She may be required to forfeit control over such elements of daily life as diet, exercise, education, her job, her appearance, etc. By this I mean, I may require her to give up certain foods like soft drinks or require that she meet fitness goals. I may determine how she dresses in public and private. Failure to serve and obey correctly will be punished.
And finally she must be able to be a pain slut. By this I do not mean simply that she can take harsh pain, in fact the pain itself need not even be that harsh (this will depend largely on the girl). By she must be willing and eager to submit to different types of pain play. This is independent of punishment for wrong doing. This is simply pain for pain's sake.
Now I do not expect to enter a relationship and get all of this immediately and neither should you. What I have described is something I would want to work towards, and I would want us to be on the same page in working towards this ideal. The ideal may change or adapt to who we are together, and that's fine. But I want my expectations to be clear to you.
Having said all this, I want to mention something else. I have entered a period of strong financial well-being for myself. This was not through a trust fund or an inheritance, but through a life time of hard work and a dedication to continue working hard. As a child, I grew up with relatively modest means, depending on financial aid and the charity of others for a great deal of my needs. As a result, I have learned to live well within my means and not indulge myself with expensive things. As a dominant, I am not interested in your money, and I don't want you to be interested in mine. I am not a findom, and I will not accept finsubs. That being said if we were to grow to the level of relationship I have described, which would take time, I would take on the finances for both of us.
Finally, I am unwilling to associate identifiable pictures of myself on a BDSM website, I am however willing to share face pics via email. You may also ask me any questions you have, and I will be happy to answer.
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