L8f

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	About L8f I have given a great deal of thought to what brings each of us to this lifestyle. I believe that it can be summed up best with one word, TRUST. A submissive desires the affection, reassurance and guidance of her Dominant as a Dominant desires the tangible evidence of a submissive's devotion and commitment. Each feeds upon the other, culminating in a very deep bond. That Trust is the most important element of any relationship. It takes time to build that and but a second to destroy it. One must have the strength and desire to face ones inner self and to get to know that person inside, before they try to know another or to share themselves with someone else. Introspection is a very important part of our own self development and something each of us would be wise to spend more time on. It is or should be an evoluationary process. The day we stop learning we have ceased to live. Several things you should know about me....Never mistake kindness for weakness, for that is my strength of character. My strength of character allows me to be gentle and that is strength. I am not for the faint of heart, for that is simply existing. I'm intense......and that comes in the mind and heart.

It seems that what I wrote in the profile has changed somewhat. I will not get into it but I have a much darker mind set then when I wrote that. I have changed and it seems I want something different. Thank You M for the email and motivating me to write this entry. I will keep that profile just as a reminder of where I was before I deployed.

I have been gone for a long time. 15 Month tour in Iraq in an infantry unit. Gunner in a humvee doing convoy security. Talk about an Alpha Males wet dream...Hooah!

I have been home a year now and have really had to look deep inside myself and learn about all the, lets just say things that happen in War.

In my opinion, it was the best learning experience one can have. Facing and conquering a fear most people will never have to experience in their entire lives. I will write more about the IED blast and other events later.

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