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Why isn't bratty submissive a choice? It really should be a choice.

I'm a what-you-see-is-what-you-get kind of girl.

I'm a Bay Area transplant and relatively new to Portland.

*I primarily identify myself as a masochist with submissive tendencies.


I am a submissive masochist who is ultimately in search of my life partner. I am just trying people on to see how they fit right now... :p


*I am a sarcastic brat and damn proud of it.


I am a SAM and a bratty one at that. Watch out for your toys, I may just hide one and smile innocently... Just kidding... If you're looking for serious submission with a passive person who's not going to stick her tongue out at you, then move on...


I can confuse myself in a conversation as well as others around me. Trust me it's quite a talent. Most people are better at written communication than verbal for many reasons. I have often been known to start a story in the middle and confuse others as well as myself. It's really an endearing quality I swear. If you can't already tell, I can form complete sentences and can sometimes form a complex thought, so don't be afraid to actually email me with more than just a hi.


In no specific order of preference; I am an anglophile, a theater geek both as a spectator and a participant, literature devourer (I have at least two books going at a time), animal lover, adrenaline rush addict, and a music and art lover. I love to travel and my bucket list has many countries still on it, but I have many years ahead in which to explore the world.


I'd like to find an intelligent Dominant man who wants to form a relationship with an independent minded woman with a strong personality. I am interested in a friend as well as a partner who I submit to, and trust me, when I submit, I really do ;). My opinion and needs mean something instead of just words that go in one ear and out the other. I'm interested in having both a vanilla and kink lifestyle with my partner.