l00katme

“Don’t ever mistake my silence for ignorance,
my calmness for acceptance,
or my kindness for weakness.”
- Author unknown

**Say what you mean, and mean what you say.**


I am a Dominant/Master Sadist who has spent quite some time on both Fetlife and out in the greater community in Kingston and the surrounding area. I am familiar with most regulars in the scene who have also been around for some time and friends with many. I consider myself to have some experience. This does not mean that I am not still learning. Nor does it mean that I know everything. On the contrary. That said, I do know more than I let on. My fetlife profile can be found here, https://fetlife.com/users/1144306

Location: Kingston Ontario.

I highly value,

Trust, Honesty, Communication, and Respect.

While I enjoy good conversation via messages here, text or other written avenues, I do at some point sooner than later want to meet over coffee and continue the friendship face to face. I am reasonable and understand that time, distance, nerves, etc play a part in making this more difficult for some. However, whatever the reason, when it reaches this point I would like reasonable effort to be made. I'm here to at minimum, make friends, similar interests are preferred, however not required as I have a zest to learn.

I am polyamorous, and tend to lean toward Poly/mono relationships and dynamics. You are free to ask questions if curious, however I would ask that you be respectful and not judge the way myself or my partners chose to live our lifestyle. If you would like more information regarding polyamory there are many resources available on the internet.
Here, let me Google that for you... http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Polyamory+
In fact here is a video that does a reasonable job of also explaining things.

In any dynamic or relationship I form or develop with someone, I am able to do as I please. That said, my partners are fully aware and accepting of my actions, any future partners should be as well. I do however listen to and consider what my partners have to say, in many cases this will affect the outcome of my decisions and actions, but not always.

Currently I am not in a relationship, however I am in a master/slave dynamic. To me a dynamic and relationship although similar in many ways, are also vastly different. Again feel free to ask any questions that you might have.

I expect that my partners are respected by all others. If you do not respect them, then it is safe to assume that we will not get along. In fact if you are disrespectful to anyone, then the same will equally apply. Respect is very important to me. Those who are respectful of myself and others will garner the same respect from myself.
I do not post pictures of myself, my partners or of any other person. I like my anonymity and privacy. I understand that this also applies to the anonymity and privacy of past, present an perspective friends, play partners, or committed partners. I do allow those that I have played with to post photos of themselves or my handy work on their own Fetlife profile with credit to myself. Examples: Photo by l00katme, Bruises by l00katme, Rope by l00katme, etc. If you are going to do this, I would ask that you discuss with me first.

I am generally very open about my kinks and my involvement within the community to my close vanilla friends, however not everyone knows (Id like to keep it this way). That said, if you see me in public I would ask that you use discretion and only approach if I have nodded to you and acknowledged your presence. If and when you do approach say hello, and keep it short if you don't know whom I am with.

I believe that there are only two ways to achieve the title of Master.

• If members/peers (typically of stature), proficient with the skill in review, have considered and titled you a Master. Generally this should be the consensus amongst a few and not simply one individual.


• A subordinate considers you their Master. *(Note: You are only a Master to that particular subordinate).* I am Master of Beby and her profile can be found here. https://fetlife.com/users/3599410

• Education.


• Mentorship.


• Informed consent.


• Protection/Safety of ones self and others.


• Trust, Honesty, Communication and Respect.

Play safe and remember,