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12.12.08 Current status - Free man !

The fact that Femdom enslavement is not legally enforceable belies the fact it can still be incredibly binding both spiritually, emotionally and mentally.
Therefore for those who find themselves deeply enslaved to a beautiful dominant woman and begin to yearn, as the weeks drag into months and the months into years, to taste again the sweet breath of freedom. Here is a short list of general rules to guide your successful escape plan.

Rule 1. Do not discuss with her.

Your escape plan must be kept top secret. Do not communicate your 'issues' with her, she will take whatever you say as an insult and likely bind you further with an additional layer of guilt. Play your cards close to your chest.
The best break-outs come as a shock, from out of blue sky.

Rule 2. Do not Tunnel to Freedom - she will bury you !

Avoid excuses like, " I thought this is what i wanted, but.." , or "I don't think I am cut out to be a true slave." Even if they work, you will be for the rest of your life haunted by the look of utter contempt her face contorts into as you tell her.

Rule 3. Break-out to High Moral Ground.

Look for a reason that makes you look a martyr or a saint rather than a bone idle loafer who just can't take the slave workload. Use elderly infirm Mother or responsibilities to dependants, even the return of a past girlfriend can work. Make it plausible and ideally factual. Be economical with the truth when required, but avoid blatant lying, dominant women can see too easily through male lies.

Rule 4. Do not play the sympathy card.

This never works either in vanilla or S&M relationships. Women only have real sympathy for their own kind. At best it may silence her vocal reproach of you, but she will still be thinking it all anyway which is as bad. Behave as if your actions are with a heavy heart and a noble sense of duty.

Rule 5. Flatter Her Ego.

If your chosen excuse is falling flat suggest or hint that part of the problem also is you have fallen in love with her. This will act as both highly flattering and deeply troubling to her. Perfect !

Rule 6. Don't Look Back !

She may be a Dominant Superior Bitch, but she can play the hurt, helpless little girl as well as any woman. Once beyond the wire, run like hell and keep running !!!!
10/31/2008 10:03:44 AM
"Perhaps, Ma'am, with it being such a nice day you might enjoy a riverside walk, I have brought a flask on the off chance you did. "
"Andrew I am midway through a sextastic fuckfest with my toyboy lover upstairs. He is beautiful, lean and very eager to please. The choice of continuing teaching this doe-eyed manchild the ways of love and the mysteries of sex, late into the afternoon, or journeying out on a dreary day with a middle aged bore, a flask of tepid tea and a packet of Hob Nobs, is not exactly a difficult choice to make.
"Jamaican Ginger cake Ma'am, actually."
"Andrew, It's not going to happen."
"Yes Ma'am, I'll watch the door doesn't hit me in the arse on the way out."