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kutelilone - Female Submissive,  Colorado | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About kutelilone

I recently came to the conclusion that although I work in a profession where I have to be dominant, in my personal life I want someone to be the dominant. I am a strong independent woman tired of go no where relationships in my personal life. I guess I cannot really say many, since in the last 12 years I have been with only two men, both who have been so very wrong for me. I want someone in my personal life I can learn to really trust and fulfills my desire of balance in life.

I am tired of finding that in my personal life I am looked at to make all the decisions and looked to me to support them. I hate to have to direct all aspects of things and find it to be more work than I want, why do men these days rely on women? I do enough of that career wise, I want to be taken care of personal wise, however supports me career wise and understands what is required of me there. I want a man to handle all that for me in my personal life ... and a man I don't have to teach what I like but just knows and would teach me a few things I didn't know about myself! I am much to feisty for a man to just push and expect me to comply. I will need a man keen enough to see I need to be brought softly into compliance.

I am not up for anyone who just says "I am a dominant man and you are my submissive due as I say" as I will never skip right to the part where they get all the rewards. A dominant man should first show me that he loves and cares for me. Touch my heart and bring me VERY close to him. Then he can bring out my natural submissive side as I will burn to please him already by that point. That's when it gets special and I obey and bring his primal desires to life for him. It will be intense all the way. Then however when it works the way it should what I have given/allowed him will pull me deep within his heart. Not many here on earth will get to feel it and that is what I am seeking.

I think it is still important that although he is the dominant we both still have our time with our friends aside, a time that apart builds up that desire for when we get home.
This is a new thought to me and something I am exploring could I be considering my thoughts wrong?

I do not like drama nor do I like games, so if they come my way I will not be scared to walk away. I am very compassionate and love to smile. Want someone I can trust andis respectful as well as honest. Who is my best friend and doesn’t play games or hide things, someone I can really learn to trust. If they can give me that, I will assure you I will give it in return. Honesty, respect and trust are the most important things in any type of relationship.

MORE ABOUT ME

I am a simple person a live by these words: Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile. I am me ... I believe I need to enjoy all I can in my life time as GOD gives us just one to live ... I try to embrace everyone who walks into my life and keep a part of them with me as they leave so that I may never forget ... I am not scared to shed a tear even if it is for hurt as it is the same for happiness ... Simple is easy and I believe in being who you are not changing yourself for anyone.

I come from a large Italian family and sarcasm is everyday with me. I have strong family values and a big heart. I have two nieces I adore and spend time with as often as possible. I have a great German Shepherd who acts like a puppy still.

I enjoy cooking and can do it fairly well. I like to dress up for a night out as much as I enjoy staying home enjoying an evening in. I love sports as I grew up playing soccer and baseball. I am a huge Cardinals and I love my Steelers. I enjoy a good beer while I watch a UFC fight. I enjoy the outdoors such as hiking and bike riding. I love CO ... it is never the same day back to back (snow, rain, or sun)... and it allows my adventurous and spontaneous side to undertake what the day may bring me… Music fanatic etc...

I work in a field that brings me constant adventure and not every day is the same. I love what I do and have worked hard to build my career. A demanding profession at times requires me to be dominant and strong. So I want to find balance in my career and personal life and find that someone who can show understanding and not require me to make all the decisions in my personal life.
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