Seeking muse. (real time for those of you still on cybertime).
Must be Italian (or other latin heritage), under 40, over 6ft, brown eyes and hair, musically inclined. Toppy, bottomy... I don't care. Just please be a man.
Anything else you come with is just sauce for the goose. *wink*
Please apply within (and read my profile completely, you will be tested).
Who am I?
I am a switch, and I'm having fun playing around with it, and getting them to blend seemlessly (just like I do with my wardrobe... and everything else in my life). I strive for harmony and balance, and I am proud to say that I'm becoming quite the mistress of illusion and substance (hehe... kudos to you if you know what I meant by that, and double kudos if you don't and you're brave enough to ask me).
I find a great deal of inspiration interacting with others, and do what I can to make each moment I live wrought with meaning. Although this sounds VERY heavy, I have an extremely good sense of humour, and am learning not to take things too seriously (and others MORE seriously than I did).
I am a confident, bright woman with a good head on her shoulders, a strong back, and a huge heart.
I am a mother of four, a wife, a girlfriend, and a sister (it's the best description I can think of for my family of choice, please ask if you don't understand). Combined we have many varied tastes and experiences, which we enjoy sharing. We enjoy meeting and spending time with people who share our aspirations, and are looking to expand our circle of friends on that basis.
Play with me is by invitation only, and I play by my rules, and so will you. I'm good at trusting myself, but it takes alot for me to trust you (and for mine to respect you). I don't play with sissies or posers. Please have courage, it's the better part of valour.
I serve in many capacities, using all the tools at my disposal. I have quite an arsenal.
Intelligence, wit, enthusiasm, grace. I am extremely resourceful and suggestible, and aim to please, however, I challenge without mercy. With me it's truly a case of be careful what you ask for, because if I find out your hearts desires, I'll spend my every waking moment thinking about how to make your wishes come true. This is true no matter which role I choose to play to you.
Being a brat is an artform, and I consider myself a mistress in that regard too. I wield subtlety like a magic wand, and conviction like a sword. Depending on my partner's objectives and how they fit with my own, I will submit or take control. One of my Masters once said that I have two modes "you say everything or nothing at all". The same rings true for my state of mind. I'm all about "all or nothing". There is no in between for me.
I practice a great deal of other artforms than brattiness, current obsessions are photography, singing, music, acting, dancing, writing, and making toys *wink*.
I used to be an office manager.... hey, everybody's gotta eat.. right? I never plan on working for the man again. EVER. He and I don't get along very well.
I posess patience, a deep understanding of myself and human nature, and a great deal of compassion and empathy. I'm known to throw those concepts right out the window if I feel threatened, but I haven't killed anybody yet (I am after all, an irish redhead). I don't feel threatened easily, but I feel it strongly when I do. I have learned through the gentle firmess of the Doms in my life when to protect myself and when to let myself go.
I take pride in my accomplishments and appearance, and so should you. Ethics, honesty, and hard work are a large part of my life, and anyone in it. I take as much pride in my accomplishments as I do in that of those I love. I am attracted to brains and personality first, as should you be, and anyone who tries to push past that I promise you will be sorely disappointed.
Most of my time is currently being taken up by significant projects of a personal nature on tight deadlines, therefore I am not courting any personal contact at this point. I am however a business minded woman, and am always looking to chat with new people who have something interesting to say, although I must say, with my priorities the way they are lately, it takes alot to get my attention.
Who are you?
I want to surround myself with people who are willing to contribute in a meaningful way to others lives, realizing that by doing so, they enrich their own.
And now you know you want to be my muse, but you still have no idea what that means. If you're brave enough to ask, get in touch.....
KS
