Honestly, I have been out of the lifestyle for a while now. Looking to see what is out there. I have been in and out of the lifestyle for 10 years. I have never been married and no children. I am here in hopes of finding long term, but friends first. I am not into being a guinea pig for novice Doms nor am I here for one night stands. Yes, if it feels right I am willing to relocate but I do come with a 7 lb chihuahua named Monkey. That is non-negotiable. :) If you want you can chat with me in yahoo: ktby1981 I have been inundated with emails. I am sorry if I do not get back immediately. Pet peeve: You have emailed me and I have responded. When you respond back: it is a sentence. Thats it. I have no clue if its a blow off or of you want me to respond again. Computers do not have facial cue. Please be courteous. Pet peeve 2: Expecting that I will agree to be your submissive after 1 or 2 chats. This is something I take very very seriously. This is a stepping stone. A way to connect. And if you are far away---I am in a lease until April at least.
I seem to be getting asked why I have been "in and out" of the lifestyle. I have had only 2 true Doms in my life. The first was in a marriage and I was to be their pet. I was collared and it was taken away. It was very difficult and painful. The second I had for 5 years. He ghosted over a year ago. No explanation. I have also moved alot in my life. It can be difficult to date in new places and the added kinky factor does not go over with some. I have also been in a couple vanilla relationships. All learning experiences and I do wish they had lasted longer. The reason I am back now, is that it has been over a year and I am ready to see whats out there.
Well 2 days back on the site and I am reminded why I had such a hard time before. I am a cautious person. I am not going to agree to give up my life after 3 emails. I have no idea who you are. Agreeing to coffee is one thing but agreeing to being a submissive is a massive commitment.
