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About Kstop
This has been my way of life in one form or another not a life style
I'm single and Looking for someone that wants and is a true submissive or slave.
Do you understand the true meaning of it and want to and willing to learn it. I cannot make you into something that does not come naturally to you. And I do not want to constantly remind you of what should be somewhat natural for you. It needs to be something you crave to be to make you feel complete.I Would eventually like to be 24/7 as much as possible. if you do not have experience you must be will to openly communicate and be able to discuss ideas fantasies we all have them. Even though some are critically fantasies and cannot be really done in the real world. But maybe they can be modified to be acceptable or can be concealed from the real world we have to live in.
this chat we'llhe not work with my computer
I think most of us would agree that being submissive person is about pleasing and giving up some control physically and mentally and complete trust to someone.unless you are just a Saturday night special. Meaning that you want to only feel special and cared about one day a week.and only play in group setting.
I think they should have or obtain their own toys that would normally would have fluids on them. They would be toys that would only be used on them and their toys to keep. I'm sorry but I think some things should not be shared. I have the other toys in my toy bags.
I ask that when you contact me you only need to be respectful. You're not my submissive. We are just two people talking and getting to know each other.
Please be serious and if you set times to talk and are not able to. I think it's only polite to tell me you will not make it. With the different ways there is to leave messages or to communicate either not feel this is too much to ask.
Please have or tell me a little bit about you. And maybe an example of what you may be looking for
I could keep going. And I understand some people are scared and nervous and do not know what to say.
But how am I supposed to really taking serious.
Tell you take some time and are serious about yourself.
I'm understanding and get pleasure from the control. Not just the use of some of my toys on you. I'm controlling the situation and what you are feeling and receiving. How much pleasure and how long your pleasure May last. Or how and when you are pleasing me and what I haven you do for me. The willingness to make me feel happy and pleased with whatever you have done. And to see a complete sigh of contentment . And to see you understand and have more confidence and accept what you are. And to see the expression when things are starting to make sense to you in your life. Which previously probably was just nothing but confusion.
Now to just give you a very basic idea about me. I know this will be just the tip of the iceberg to answer your questions.
I'm pretty laid back I did not make any demands. I may ask you to do something. But it's up to you to follow through with what I have asked of you. Of course it will usually need to be done in a timely manner or there will have to be consequences. Which shouldn't happen too often cause t will be probably something you want to do or have planned on doing already.
In the beginning as far as the lifestyle was concerned it was rough for me. I thought everybody was like me. I started playing when I was 12 years old
I started out playing with a older neighbor girl. At first it was just in to playing with ropes and me tying her up. And very quickly we played with her topless --- until her mother found out!
When I was 14 and 15 years old I worked for a farmer about 60 miles away in the summer. He had two older daughters that were home during the summer from college. I don't remember if they were already into the lifestyle. We played many times together; one was a slave and the other was a submissive.
I introduced my first wife to it and appear to really like it for a little while. She turned out to be a very strong domme, which did not work out too well for me.
My second wife was was a slave for the first couple years then things changed and she could only be submissive than later was only interested in being like a 50s type submissive. I really miss having a slave or even submissive
I have played with many people and in many places here in the U.S. and England and have been involved with groups in both places.
It was different playing over in England because of the different culture there. It was more open they're and more accepting. I remember the style of clothing was more accepted and the different body modifications was more obvious. This was in the middle eighties.
Would gladly answer questions you would like to ask me.
I am always open to new friends. I believe people in the lifestyle should be friends first.
Even with all my years in this way of life, to me
I am still learning and don't have all the answers.
Would gladly be willing to help with other people's questions. Each situation is unique and special to you.
I enjoy helping people figure there self out and understanding new things. It is about helping and not telling you. You are doing things wrong
I will only do that, if it deals with safety concerns or issues.
It is not about just playing or sex.It is about answering your questions and helping you explore your ideas rather it is your fantasies and my ideas fantasies.
I will not always have answers for everything, but I can help you find the answers.
not really into online play too much though
I have problems with the chat here and I don't like it either
so please message me here. And I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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