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Female Submissive, 48, StMarys, Kansas
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About KSsub4MISTRESS
Update: Yes, I know, I've been gone from this site for a looooooong time. In all honesty, I pretty much just today remembered it's existance. So, I'm back, and perhaps this time I might be able to find someone whom I compliment. Note: With all due respect to any Mistress who messages me, I am highly unlikely to answer any message that's only a sentence or two long. You can't expect someone, even a slave, to give any real effort if you aren't willing to at least write a full paragraph.
What kind of Mistress am I looking for? What kind of submissive am I? Very good questions I never touched on my profile, and which should be explained. Finding a Mistress that isn't taken is hard enough, but one has to be sure the Mistress is right for you. The Mistress/submissive relationship is far more than just a sexual thing. Sadly, there are so many people that don't understand this.
In short, the kind of Mistress I'm looking for one who looks for honesty and total loyalty, but leaves me capable of making most of my own decisions and opinions(within certain limits of course). Not only that, but respects those opinions, I always enjoy a good in-depth conversation.
Trust is probably the biggest thing. In all bdsm relationships, their MUST be trust, otherwise it could never work. It is the submissive job, as well, to ensure his/her Mistress knows she in not second-best. To the submissive, she should be(for lack of a better word) worshiped.
He should, at times, need to play therapist. Yes, everyone has their weak points, nobody is perfect. He should listen, have an opinion, but never criticize.
This, to me, is the real difference between a submissive and true submissive. The submissive does it because it turns him on. The true submissive does it because it makes his partner happy, and her happiness is the key to his survival.
Yes, I admit I'm a romantic. Which is actually pretty odd, considering I'm also a cynic. Ah well.
Also, I should explain that I do not bow to someone merely because they call themselves a Mistress. I remain respectful at all times, but to earn my submission, you must earn my respect. With respect will come trust, and when the times comes that I kneel to you, you will know that I have just given myself to you entirely. ~Respect is earned, not given~
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I am unused to journals, there are so many better things to do normally. Here is my current thought of the day:
We are all inhibited from our beginnings, from chilhood we have impressed upon us certain rules of society to abide by. Years accumulate, as do feeling such as fear, prejudice, and guilt. What we really want is sometimes buried so deep we never realize it's existance. Love and fear inhibit us as well, for we don't wish to dissappoint those we love or who love us. We are prevented from pursuing many things because we wish to make our loved ones happy. We also fear of realizing our dream, for two reasons. One reason is that many people feel they don't deserve it, we get what we want and are filled with guilt thinking of all the people around you who have failed at thier dreams. The other reason is simply that, if we do realize our dreams, we will have nothing more to strive for, and therefor will have no more reason to continue on. |
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I have no idea who to contribute this to, but thank you whoever you are, you gave me one hell of a good laugh:?
Dear Mistress, Do me, do me, do this to me, do that to me, do this other thing to me, wear these clothes while you are doing it, force me to do these other things, and by the way I expect some kinky sex acts. Here is a picture of my big hard cock for Your pleasure. I've only sent it to 6,342 women on this site so far, so it should make you feel really special that I'm sending it to you too. I won't pay you money because pros are so selfish and demanding. You have to do all this stuff to me just because You like it, and if You don't, then obviously you are not a Real Domme. I didn't actually read your profile and I could not care less about what you are looking for or who you are as a person. I just want you to wear sexy clothes and do me. I'm married and sneaking around so discretion is a must. I expect you to stay in your dungeon and never talk to me if you happen to see me on the street with my real friends and family. I can't give You my phone number or my real name either. But I'm really, really submissive. In fact, I am your total sex slave. To prove it, here is another picture of my big hard cock in bondage. If you're a Real Domme, you will write back immediately. If you don't write back, you're just a fake, so fuck you, bitch. Submissively, Your Slave.
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