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Female Submissive, 41, Eugene, OR, Oregon
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About KSparks710
Searching, not finding. Every time a "Domme" emerges, she turns out to be a fake. True kink is dead. |
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It's not about sex or nudity, it's about psychological warfare. It's about approaching the session as if it's an interrogation; it's not about inflicting physical pain, you have to try and attach a meaning to that pain that will force that person to submit. The trick here is that you aren't asking any questions, rather you are making your subject into a slave. If you are to truly break someone, it's not as simple as telling them to do something. Why should they obey you? Because you'll give them an orgasm? Please. Because you'll whip them if they don't? It's not enough to break them down into a BDSM version of good cop bad cop. As far as I'm concerned, you have to not give a damn what they want and FORCE them to bend to your will.
Of course, the ideas that I've been throwing around are based on the idea that the subject is not already someone who wants to submit. I myself will never lick your boots clean, allow anything in my ass or do your housework. That's not an even trade for the derived sexual pleasure. I don't want an orgasm, I want a mindfuck. Don't tell me to get on all fours and open wide, lock me into a stock and ram me as I scream bloody murder into a gag. Don't tell me to clean your house, imprison me in chastity and shove an electric probe in my ass until I start up the vaccuum. Do you want a puppy-slave? Bind my limbs and get the biggest gag you can find and limit my body to only dog-esque movements.
A slave is not a job that one applies for. A true slave, like a prize stallion, must be broken down before it is owned. A TRUE Dom/me is not a business owner, they are Masters of a trade that requires skill and passion. A true dominant doesn't want my money. They want my mind.
This is why traditional "BDSM porn" sites frustrate me so much. It's all about how many holes they can fill or how graphic they can be or how many ways they can fuck a person. A few sites, like Qualitycontrol.cc or bondagejunkies.com, get it right. they understand that it's not about the skin you show or the act of penetration. It's about mentally pushing the subject and the audience. Anyone can film sex. A Master can intelligently break down a subject and drive them to submission not for a paycheck, but for the mindfuck. |
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