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If You Plan On Sending A Message, Please Read At Least The Following Few Passages! It's pretty short.
If you send a form letter I will delete it and block you.

I am by no means a pain-slut/masochist. If that's what you're looking for them I would suggest moving on to other profiles.

Also, while I'm not actively seeking a Dom right now (I'm still trying to figure out what things i would like to try), if you are inclined to try luring me into your clutches you'll have a better chance if you're mid/late twenties, possibly up to early forties and in fairly good shape. I do my best to exercise, eat right, stay healthy; it's part of respecting yourself. If you can't respect yourself how can I, and how can you respect someone else such as a sub? 

Anyway,
I've been interested in the lifestyle for a while now, though only actively looked into it in the past year or so. I do have a little bit of experience and some hard limits. There are soft limits as well, but you'd best have quite the charm to get me to agree to do them.

Biggest thing to me is respect (if you couldn't guess from my little comment above), not just sub to Dom, but Dom to sub. Trust is a very close second.
Perhaps a quirk that has risen from those last two statements is that if I am chatting or messaging with a Dom/me I will call him or her Sir or Ma'am from the start and continue to do so (without overburdening the language too much) until such point that s/he shows me that s/he doesn't deserve it.
swingersd1
 
 Age: 44
 Jefferson City, Missouri