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I believe in man's power to transcend his origins, no matter how squalid or how wounded one is. I know this to be true because I've done it. We choose whether we let our surroundings limit and define us. I find myself less patient with those who come up with excuses for inhibiting their own progress. We all get wounded by this world. The question is, what do you do with that?
Certain trees have marvelous ways of incorporating scars into new patterns of growth. I aspire to have the intelligence of a Tree.
I'm very much into pup play/training and am currently looking for pupboys. There's still a lot I want to learn, and I hope to find patient subs to work with as I learn new skills and develop existing ones.
I'm fairly certain mediocracy kills, albiet slowly, like smoking (yes I smoke) or excess drinking. And if nothing else, normalicy seems to numb the mind and imagination.
...but I had a point...I think...
I'm a very eclectic & adventurous individual. I enjoy trying new things, activities, foods, sex, etc. I do not watch much TV, but I do enjoy movies, & do a great deal of reading. True to my unusual nature, I enjoy the more abstract pleasures of life. Things like flying kites in the park in the middle of the night. Blowing bubbles. Midnight BBQs. Random trips into the mountains. Playing UNO & drinking coffee at a cafe' at 3am.
I value the simple things in life, & worked hard to simplify my life. I'm a very laid back person. I tend to wear my heart & my mind on my sleeve. Honesty & openness are important to me. I'm a very independent man, with a dominant personality. I have a dry & sometimes sardonic sense of humor, most likely from all the British humor I grew up with. I tend to the introverted side. I prefer more intimate interaction to large gatherings of people I'm unfamiliar with. I'm a deviant, in the true sense of the word. I'm unusual & revel in that fact. I do not fit neatly into any social, personality, or sexual peg hole, & I like it that way.
I'm not actively looking for LTR right now. If it happens, it will happen in its own time. I've been comfortably single for some time now, & discovered I don't need someone else to be happy. My contentment is not dependent on anyone other than myself. However, I do enjoy the intimacy of spending my time with others. Physically, mentally, & sometimes spiritually.
I value honesty & open minded individuals. I'm drawn to people with a good sense of humor, those able to laugh at themselves & the senselessness and sometimes, absurdity of life. I am attracted to masculine, secure, stable men, who are as affectionate & tactile as I am. An ability to carry on a conversation, & sometimes multiple conversations, & do so with the conviction of their own ideas, ideals, & opinions.
Too many seem to take sex far to seriously, too single mindedly, just focused on getting off, and that's a shame. Sex should be fun, sex should be joyous, you should be able to laugh and joke during sex without feeling awkward.
Despite my Dominant nature, I've never been especially interested in "topping" for vanilla anal sex. That's not to say that I will take the receptive role, quite the opposite. I tend to be very aggressive, I just prefer my boy to pleasure me during anal sex, not the other way around. In all other way, including other forms of anal play, I'm a Top.
I'm also a hedonistic sensualist. My deviance and adventurous nature extends to my sexual tastes, meaning I have a good deal of varried interests. Into pup play/training, some CBT, ff, sounding, mods, tatts, piercings, cock banding, toys, rope bondage and more. I won't list everything here, but feel free to ask me if interested.
I don't have a particular physical type, my tastes having broadened with age. I still find it insanely erotic to dominate someone smaller/slimmer than myself, and have always had a special attraction for soccer/skater/swimmer builds. Sexual submissiveness is very arousing to me, as is an openness to try new things. There is so much more to sex than anal/oral, and nothing is so satisfying as gripping every possible pleasure center and squeezing every ounce of ecstasy out of it.
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