I'm starting to think I'd have better luck finding a submissive playmate at a church social than this website.  It saddens me that I'm not kidding at all.

I see so many women here that label themselves "submissives", then include a laundry list of what they want or want done to them.  That's not being submissive, that's just dominating someone into helping you fulfill your fantasies.  Not to say people shouldn't have their own preferences, but I think the point is missed.  When the goal is more about the act than the relationship, it's already doomed to be disappointing for everybody.

There are so many women with obvious complexes and issues here.  It's discouraging.  Yet I hold out hope there's a few that see this as a healthy expression of their sexuality, rather than those who are just stuck in a pathological loop.