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About Kokakola2
Hello,
I have not been active in the lifestyle for quite sometime. However, I have never really lost intrest, just gave up on the hunt due to the drastic changes in the community. I have a wide range of intrests and willing to discuss them with people who actually want to communicate with me. I can go from the mild to the extream with the the right people. I only ask that you be as real as you expect me to be.
I have a life, while its on the rocks at the moment I am not the kind to give up on myself. I have goals and ambitions and sort of looking for those willing to help me advance in them.
Consider me open to hear you out. Please be willing to recipricate.
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Eghads!
Now men are contacting me asking for money. Go get a fucking job dude!
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Are there ANY women out there looking for a relationship that does not hinge on money? Any secure women out that that do not need a guy to take care of them?
Any women out there with dominant tendencies that poses self-esteem and and do not confuse their "dominance" with their "arrogance"?
If you're out there please let me know. I am a real person. |
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They really need to consider changing this name of this site to "desparate domme's" with all the people begging for money.
I mean I understand working for corporate America has become equivalent to outright slavery for anyone not making less than $80,000 a year but jeeze. I make a living by drawing pictures; its not hard to make money folks. there is no need to get on a "free" site and beg.
...and Yes that is what many of you are doing; begging!
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So, I have been in this lifestyle for 12 years or more. I have been on this site for about 8 years. I noticed shortly after 2007 and the great economic collapse of American capitalism that there was a huge surge of profiles with the following lines:
..."spoil me"...
..."i require tribute"...
..."I am a FinDom"...
...and my favorite "i am a pro" coupled with a weak profile, with really crappy pics or videos or a link to some paysite they want you to join in order to "prove your loyalty"!
or equating cuckoldry, strictly with FinDom
Either way I am sure that these are legitimate fetishes for some men and women. However, most people I know and meet with in "real life" (you know that place where people meet face to face and have jobs and families and stuff) do not really engage in this sort of thing.
The few real professional Dominatrixes that I know may advertise on sites like this but they make it very clear what they are here for and if they link to a site it is often a personal one or within an actual directory; with professional looking pictures and/or videos.
This sort of leads me to believe that there are a lot of desperate people out there looking for an easy quick buck.
If your one of those people then please, with all assurity I have absolutely NO interest in you.
Financial domination is not my fetish and the most valuable tribute I can give you is my submission but if you are so shallow that you think I am foolish enough to believe that I need to give you money to prove my loyalty than you are simply delusional.
Not that I have never given my Mistress or Master gifts or payed for a dinner etc. But The good ones, the real ones never ask. I have always given out of loyalty (the earned kind; not the expected kind) and reverence to people who deserve it.
So if that is what your after move along. |
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The irony is this...
...a lot fo the picky people I have met online...
...are the people I would be most picky about, and I am not that picky! |
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Pro's
...and I do mean "real" pros. I do web design, logos, graphics of all types, photography, and video. My prices are reasonable if your interested but I am not free and I do not exchange work for favors. Let me know if you are really interested in my work and I will show you what i can do. |
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Thank you all for reading my profile. I wish to be clear here, if you equate loyalty to "tribute" or "money" I am NOT interested in you. If my socioeconomic level maters so much to you that you exclude any consideration of me, then lets not talk.
If your condition of my servitude requires you to interrogate me about my background then I am NOT interested in you. I will give you reasons to trust me but first I need to see that you are not paranoid, shallow or just a plain flake.
I submit to dominant people who are in control of themselves and confident in themselves and do not need me as a crutch for their own insecurities. Yes I am saying that.
I have a lot to offer but I am not giving it to anyone who is pretending. I am real, you need to be real. |
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