It is with great difficulty that i make another log entry into my journal. Since i have not actually found an Owner yet only those who want to dominate my pocket, i must voice my opinion about the “professional Domminatrix” lifestyle. 

It is amazing that there are so many “professional” Dommes. There would be no reason to have them, if there were not a demand for them. It is appalling to me that there are “professional” Dommes in the lifestyle in the first place. A “professional mistress” is only one step above a prostitute and since they are not vanilla in their profession, does not classify them as an ‘escort’.  That brings up the point of those who use the ‘services’ of a “professional domme”.  Players, slaves, those with midlife crisis, those with a desperate need in which they cannot quench themselves and those simply trying it to see if they like it; all of which give fuel to the fire laid under the feet of those who label themselves as “professional”.  If the submissives of this lifestyle would stop using “professional Dommes; the lifestyle would get back to domination and submission, rather than exploitation and browbeaten. 

The truth is, that many (“professional Dommes) would have no profession if it were not for those who choose to use their services. (Now who is the Dom and who is the slave?)  Money dominates the “professional Domme, like nothing else in their pitiable life. If it weren’t for money, i guess they would have to slither back into their vanilla life where they would become vanilla, having to rely on education and/or talent; or begin again as a Lifestyle Domme, attempting to find fulfillment in the lifestyle that they say that they enjoy. It is also curious that the “professional dommes” have stopped having sexual contact with their ‘clients’ as a means of domination.  It is actually only a means of showing their inability to have a commitment to a slave or slaves within the lifestyle. Of course they want it their way and only their way, afterall they are Dommes; but the loving intimacy that a slave develops for their Owner happens. The “professional Domme” cannot fulfill this longing and the love turns to resentment and eventually the lack of interest (or money) causes a separation between the slave and the “professional domme”.

Also odd, is that there are no professional Doms for the most part.  If you were a slave (male or female) and wanted a professional Dom; would you hope that that Dom would take you sexually? Would you pay him? Want you hope to be allowed to lay with him to please him? It is my opinion that you would. Most slavegirls who seek Lifestyle Doms/Masters, all have that hope. In fact, most slaves period what sex as part of their relationship with their Owner.  It is also very likely that the male Owner also wants this sexual relationship with their slave. However, the “professional domme” simply wants to assert herself over others for the single pleasure of money.  For those who want to bring the lifestyle back into a lifestyle of domination and submission, it is recommended that you do not succumb to the temptation to use a “professional Domme”.  They have many methods, and will try to get you to join this website and that website, use your credit card to “verify your age”.  It is all BS and all simply a very cleverly laid trap for you and your finances. If there are those who are “professional Dommes” who do not like what i have said, than i guess i have hit too close to home.  Collarme itself has said on their site, “DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON!” It is up to you if the lifestyle is lost in a pool of c0rruption. Beware also that many of these “professional Dommes” are using pictures of young girls with very few words on their profiles.

It must also be added that, “professional dommes” are not the only women who attempt to get money behind the guise of the BDSM flag; and what they want…being money is all that is really on their mind.  Again, the men are the targets of these great deceivers.  The dominant slaves do the same thing, only with other methods.  I will refer to them as “relocation slaves”. They will say anything and everything to a potential Owner to get the Owner to relocate them from his own money. When the potential Owner will not do it, the “relocation slave” moves on to find a profile page of a sucker who will. Eventually they find one, take his money, and move on to the next sucker to do it all again.

Owners should remember this before relocating a slave.  You will own them, feed them, care for them when ill, and give them room and board for the entire length of their contract/term.  If they cannot scrounge up a few bucks to come to you, are they really worth the risk?  That is a stupid question because anyone with any common sense wouldn’t even consider it.  Let U/us all get smart and return the Lifestyle to what it is supposed to be about.  If you cannot afford a slave, you do not deserve to be a Dominant.  If you cannot afford to relocate to your Owner, you do not deserve that Owner.

It has been brought to my attention that by not completing my journal regularly, that i have been in error.  i had envisioned beginning this when i began my r/l journey.  However, this journal will now be offered as a testament of my ideas, desires, likes, dislikes and learning experiences as a means to allow my future Owner an avenue to learn more about me through them.