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kobrakai

I used to think I was odd or different for wanting sex a certain way. Finding this site has led me to realize I'm not and there are real women who are looking for something compatible with what I'm looking for. Reading through several profiles has also given me a way to describe myself. I'm a pretty vanilla person looking for a long-term relationship. I don't want a 24/7 D/s lifestyle. I don't want a partner to wear a collar 24/7 for me. I am in no way making any judgements. If that's want you want that's great but it's not what I'm looking for. To put it bluntly, I'm looking for the proverbial "lady in the street/freak in the sheets." To put that a better way: I'm looking for someone who has similar interests and who can integrate into my life (and vice-versa) but when we get to the bedroom (or wherever we may find ourselves) won't freak out if I grab her throat, slap her tits and use very dirty talk. Nor do I want other people in my life (who I'm not intimate with) to know what I get up to in bed. It's none of their business. I'm primarily dominant but wouldn't mind handing over the reins every once in a while.
Domix
 
 Age: 31
  California