The first thing that I want to make very clear is that I am married. However, if by some stroke of luck I meet someone locally that is interested in having some fun, it will be with the full knowledge and consent of my wife. We are also part of a polyamorous relationship with another couple so they will be aware as well.
With that out of the way, I'm hoping to find someone to play with occasionally and explore all these kinky things I've only fantasized about. My wife is largely vanilla and just isn't comfortable playing that way. While it goes against gender stereotypes, I've never been a fan of one night stands so I'd rather meet someone that wants to develop an ongoing "friendship with benefits."
While I consider myself a switch, I definitely want to focus on exploring my submissive side first. I have no first hand experience with kinky play and feel I need to learn the ropes and get some experience with it before I even consider being dominant.
While I'm open to trying quite a lot, I do have a few hard limits. This list is not exhaustive, but it's a good start. No cutting, needles, or anything else that breaks the skin. No scat or water sports. I'm not a huge fan of humiliation in general, but public humiliation is a hard limit. Also, I don't have a high pain tolerance so I'd greatly prefer play that doesn't center around inflicting pain.
