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Male Dominant, 50
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Female Switch, 21, MIAMI, Florida
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Male Switch, 44, Santa Barbara, California
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About Knotical
Highly experienced, creative, selective dominant Top. Have been taking some time off to get a new business going, but am feeling the need again.
A few things. I am sadistic. Not to inflict pain for pain’s sake, but because nothing elicits the raw physical and emotional energy that pain does. That means that my interest in pain is both individual and relative. What may overwhelm one person may bore someone else. I hate boredom, but to overwhelm is to dampen the depth of the response, and is equally unsatisfying.
I am physical. I exercise 6 days a week. I am as strong today as I was when I coached Olympic weightlifting years ago. I push myself hard and I push others just as hard. It takes strength to submit your will to others gladly. It takes strength to submit to pain willfully and purposefully inflicted. So I find erotic power in the strength - - not the weakness - - of my partner. (My first partner was a competitive bodybuilder.) So I demand a lot physically, mentally and emotionally.
I am intellectual. I make a living telling others what to do with their money and their businesses. I engage in “this” because I have found no better way to get inside someone’s head and ultimately, their heart, than through this. This is not simply “sensation play.” It is a dance in which I burrow deeply into your head and psyche using your body, your mind and your emotions. And, believe me, you will burrow into mine. If you don’t think you will like what you or I find there, I’m not the one for you.
In a similar vein, I am creative. Very creative. I have to be. Doing what is expected, what is “the usual,” won’t help me on the journey inside your head. Pushing, prodding, eliciting that “delicious fear” is what helps cross thresholds. If you like it “just like last time” this probably won’t be satisfying for either of us.
I am competent. If I tie you, you’ll stay tied. If I tie you to be uncomfortable, you will be uncomfortable. If I say I won’t mark you, I won’t mark you. If I say I will mark you, I will. If I crawl inside your head, I do so not to break what’s there, but to uncover it. If I wanted to break you, I could. No one has ever required medical care or therapy when I was done.
I am responsible. I’ve been doing this, off and on, for a long, long time. I’ve never injured anyone. Ever. Unlike in the novels, it is the nature of this lifestyle that people return to “real life.” I will push, challenge, make you hate me, make you love me, but you will be left with only memories and a deeper understanding of yourself. I am D/d free. I am willing to be tested as you should be.
In a similar light, I have references. People who have entrusted their bodies and their minds and their emotions to me, and have lived and loved another day and have felt strongly enough about our time together to be willing to vouch for me. I would ask a lot of you. You should be able to submit completely knowing that I am who I say.
Roles? Definitions? To the degree they matter, I'm a Dominant, because I enjoy exerting my will over others in ways that society has long since condemned. I'm a Top because I can enjoy hurting someone and making them eat out of a dog bowl, and fully enjoy their company. I’m not a Master because I don’t own a slave. When I do, I will take the role very seriously. I don't do a lot of navel-gazing about terms and definitions.
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