We are a warm, dominant and kinky married couple who live in San Francisco and are seeking a bisexual submissive who is quite kinky herself. She is 42 and identifies primarily as a sadistic lesbian top; he is 58, heterosexual, revels in D/s play and sometimes switches. Both of us are quite experienced, and we have an extensive of collection of toys -- so boredom is unlikely!
The ideal woman for us is between 30 and 55, takes care of herself physically and has been seeking the opportunity to see just how deeply submissive she can be; however, the environment and the lack of appropriate partner(s) have up to now prevented her from realizing that desire. Essentially, she aches to do what she has been afraid to express because she has not felt safe to do so. With us, she can.
Do you get a little wet thinking about a yellow bug zapper or whether you could take a dozen alligator clips holding apart your labia so that the neoprene genital whip about to be used on you has maximum effect? Would you like -- in your heart of hearts -- to be a human toilet? When you hear the word "needle", is sewing on a buttom unlikely to be the first thing that pops into your mind? We know that you have certain fantasies that especially thrill you, and we might very well enable them to happen. And, importantly, throughout all that, as you are being used and abused, we will respect you for the woman you are and cherish you for the perversities that vitally define the true you.
We desire to establish a relationship with this "perfect (for us)" submissive woman that will encompass three elements: play, servitude and companionship. Sex will weave through all of them, for we like orgasms for ourselves and, when appropriate, for her. While we do not envision -- for the foreseeable future -- a 24/7 relationship between us and you, even if we all go out to dinner and the movies together, you will always have your submissiveness running in the background and ready to manifest itself at the snap of a finger. Initially, this is not a live-in position, though, as we shall explain to you, it could evolve into that. And also, we can see the circumstances in which you could evolve into being our actual slave.
While BDSM is very important to us, our lives are enriched by many other activities as well ranging from
exploring the best of various wines and cuisines, watching movies in the dedicated home theater in our home, taking photographs and visiting art galleries, playing golf, etc. We envision your participation from time to time in these, too.
This is a reality position; we are not interested in cyber or webcam domination. Therefore, you must either live locally (the San Francisco Bay environs) or have both the ability to travel to meet us and the flexibility to move here if we all "click". Also, though we respect the humanity of bisexual male submissives, sissies, CDs and transsexuals (both pre- and post-), we are interested only in hearing from genetic females.
If what we have described seems appealing to you, we would like you to do the following. Please write us a letter in which you tell first about yourself -- what sort of person you are, what you are seeking in your life, your experience level in BDSM and whatever else you think it is important for us to know about you from the start.
Include a picture of yourself that is reasonably recent. In return, we shall provide you with a picture of us and feedback to what you have written. Then we and you shall see what develops thereafter.
Don't be afraid to write and be assured all correspondence will be answered, even if we decide that you are not well-suited for us, as well as be kept in confidence. You owe yourself the life you truly want, and you owe it to us to know that you are "out there". What we all are seeking is too precious and too valuable for it not to come true.
J and L
