Well now; finding out about me will be part of the adventure. I like to know how you feel, what makes your blood run both hot and cold. I am 44 in a vanilla and hence not looking for a life time partner. My wife knows I am here and is happy for me to get my needs met this way. I am looking for regular all things BDSM time with the right woman. This may be cyber if you are right for me. I will not mess you around emotionally or by not turning up. I expect the nothing less from you.