Kinquebus

First of all, I am a realist. I don’t live in a dungeon or the 7^th level of hell, but I do relish time spent there. I also enjoy many vanilla things. Sometimes the best things are in between, for instance you and I with another couple at dinner and I lean over and whisper something that would make the other couple wretch if they heard it, but you just smile demurely and think of what is to come. I want someone who wants to share all of that.

My philosophy on BSDM is that it is firstmost and foremost a mental endeavor. It’s not about who has the biggest flogger or who can inflict the most pain or who demands the most obedience, but who work with their partner to experience intense rapture. Rapture is a mental state, not a corporeal one. Not that physical stimuli aren’t important.

And so, I want to know you, to laugh with you, know what you are passionate about, learn your favorite things, discover what your challenges are, and find out what’s stopping you from getting where you want to be. Not really one for labels, but I am more of a Daddy Dom with a sensual sadist side. I am the guy your mother should have warned you about, but she thought I was a real nice guy :-)

And so, who would you be? Well, you need to be cultured. And pretty silly. Comfortable strapped to a spanking bench or listening to Beethoven at Symphony Center (or both in the same night ;-) Happy with yourself in general (we all have our baggage.) Into submission and service, but not serving as a doormat. A pinch of hedonism, and a dash of sexuality. All bound together with passion and naughtiness. All of that topped off with discretion because I am married, but I am not looking for a one night stand.

Finally, I am not concerned with your level of experience, your age, your height, or your weight.

If this sounds interesting to you, lets chat sometime. If not, good luck on your journey.