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Public service announcement. To any and all interested TRUE Domme's and/or switches...due to the high volume of frauds and scam artists on this site, it is incumbent upon you to prove to me you are real. Do not expect me to give you money or gifts without our meeting in person FIRST at a neutral location. Do not blame me, nor do I blame you. Indeed, I have nothing but the utmost respect for TRUE Domme's and switches. It is nevertheless a necessary measure to outwit all of the scam artists on this site. I WILL NOT be scammed! Fully 95% of the Domme profiles on here are fake, just so you realize what we're up against. Once a rapport is established, I can ASSURE you I am nothing if not generous in my gift giving. However, financial domination and blackmail are two hard limits of mine. So do not expect that to change.
While I may be relatively new to the hands-on experiences of the kink/BDSM world, I'm considerably more well versed from the book smarts perspective. Been in vanilla relationships before, where they weren't interested, or others where they WERE interested, and didn't quite make it into any kind of BDSM activity for one reason or another. Anyway, I'm a submissive-leaning switch. I have a proverbial friend-with-benefits who has been teaching me the ropes over the past year....so to speak;-) While I crave submission to a dominant or switch female, I'm open to domming a submissive or switch female if we have enough common fetishes. Speaking of fetishes, I have more fetishes than I can count, but for starters, I'm big into bondage, leather, boots & heels, smothering (breath play), and role playing, such as pursuit, takedown, and capture kidnapping. I'm not wild about cages because I have just a slight case of claustrophobia that sets in when I'm in something as small as, say a dog cage for example. Anything bigger than that doesn't affect me. I would however, say that that's more of a soft limit. In other words, while something I'm not open to at first, perhaps in time I will. As far as other HARD limits go, cuckholding, SCAT, needles, blood, permanent injury, forced tattoos/piercings/brandings, etc. , and forced bi/homosexuality, just for starters. Those things I'll never do under any circumstances. While I might enjoy switching things up now and then, I NEED to submit to the right Mistress. I have NO NEED to dominate....just to make that clear.
I'm a Christian (Lutheran) first, and am looking for someone who is also Christian. I'm also pretty conservative too between my family and military background. Ultimately, I AM looking for a long term relationship though. That is my ultimate goal. Everything else, at this point, is secondary to me.
I USED to have pictures on here. However, due to having them stolen (from another site) as well as my very identity, I've been forced to take them down due to the lack of security from sites such as this one. I still have them up on my fetl!fe page however, as it's a much more secure site for posting photos. If you would like to see them, and my fetl!fe profile, my username there is aicswitch74. |
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Ok, so I've had to take down my pictures, due to the fact that someone out that has compromised my privacy and security by stealing my photos, and is making inflammatory posts, and has discovered my real name, where I live, my very identity. So if you would like to see photos, I can send them to you in an email. But I will no longer be posting them here. |
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Just an FYI, and this really goes without saying, but if you are a scam artist/con artist/fraud like ladykoto, I take great pleasure in exposing frauds like you who are here under the guise of a female dominant. I have ZERO respect for con artists and frauds, and limit my respect to TRUE femdommes ONLY! To anyone who reads this, if this person begins talking to you, and quickly wants to transfer to yahoo, under the username ladycarla34, and wants you to create a profile at XHTTPX//ard.xxxblackbook.com/trafficoptimizer/index.php?toid=83862&r=lc373757, for $29.95, with a username of yourname4carla, this person is a scam artist. Don't get suckered one. |
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Just as an FYI, while I absolutely respect what you prodomme's do, I am not looking for a prodomme. Unfortunately, a prodomme simply cannot fulfill what I need in my life.....and what I need is a long term relationship from a loving Female Dominant. I'm not looking for flings of any kind, or pay-to-play. I'm getting old enough now, I really would like to be settling down with someone....thanks. |
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Ok, apparently I need to clarify something. If you do take the time to check out my profile, and email me here a couple times, that's really all I'm looking for to build up enough trust to then chat via Yahoo, or AIM, or MSN, or what have you. My big thing is weeding out the swarm of frauds and scam artists that are on here. Once I know you're real, great, then I don't have a problem chatting via Yahoo, etc. Thanks. |
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Just wanna take a moment to thank everyone who served in the military, or is currently serving on this Veteran's Day, as I myself have served for over 9 years. But the biggest thanks of all goes out to all of those who couldn't make it back home and were killed in the line of duty. To them, we owe a debt that can never be repaid. May God bless them, and rest them in peace. |
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Ok, here's how it works with me....if you email me with your first email and ask me to email you at whateveryouremailaddressis at yahoo dot com , I will block you immediately and report you as a fraud to site administrators....sorry people, but that's the sadistic side of me coming out...lol...I do take pleasure in reporting as many of you fakes as I can. And the really amazing thing is that the email that collarme has works JUST AS WELL as yahoo, or hotmail, or whatever the hell you have! I know, it's a really novel concept that collarme came up with; having their own email....imagine that! And it also shows you respect my privacy, rather than expect me to just hand over my email address so you can spam the living shit out of it, or whatever your less-than-honorable intentions are of me. If you're real, and your interest is genuine, click on my profile so I can at least see in the "Who's Viewing Me?" block that someone actually took the whole 30 seconds it takes to read my profile. If you do that, I can guarantee you I will respond. Thank you.....Off my soapbox! |
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