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*****First off- Please don't contact me unless you have something to say. "How are you" or "Wanna chat on AIM?" = MEH.
*****Also guys, women can tell when you cut and paste the same thing to dozens of women. We erase those messages.
Now that I have that out of the way...
I love spending time with earth-conscious, passionate, soulful people. I'm an earthy-crunchy girl. I love the earth and am passionate about preserving it. The bumper stickers on my car sum me up quite nicely: Tree hugger. Coexist.
I'm an old soul, quite a bit different from most people you meet. I dislike small talk in general, preferring to really connect with
people.
My turn-ons include: a small ecological footprint, sharing my passion for the causes I support and/or knowing why I'd boycott trade with China, using big words that I might need to look up, lack of internet slang use, people who stimulate my brain in addition to my sex drive.
I am no longer monogamous. I'm polyamorous. Polyamory translates literally into "many loves". There are several people I adore. A person who wants to get to know me should understand that they wont be my one and only.
In everyday life I am far from submissive. In fact, friends would be very surprised that I crave submission because my demeanor is very confident, direct, and can be dominant; qualities I've cultivated by working with behaviorally-challenged clients.
What I'm looking for is a man more dominant that I. Someone who would not ask me to deny part of my personality and uniqueness, or become less than I am in order to submit to him. I seek a man who
likes me for the multifaceted woman I am and understands that my submission to him is as a powerful symbol of his unmistakable dominance.
I have no interest in a 24/7 slave type arrangement. Having some sort of power exchange dynamic does intrigue me though, and with the right man I'd explore this.
I'm resistant, not a pushover/doormat/automaton/passive woman who will do exactly as you say. I'm NOT a brat. I have a backbone. Also, to be honest, I simply like the struggle, the force, the pain that accompanies being resistant. Just a natural smart-ass...call it a gift.
I'm call myself a SAMM (smart ass *mild* masochist. Like a SAM only not quite as masochistic. I enjoy moderate pain and the erotic take-down.
I need a Dominant who can not only handle my playful resistance and occasional mouthiness, but who delights in it and will happily take me with the force and recklessness I crave. I understand that being this personality type in the context of D/s comes with a degree of correction at times. I'm a big girl. I can handle it.
My intention is to never take things so seriously that we can't erupt in laughter. Serious has its place in some scenes, but I am seeking a relationship based on affection and playfulness.
Some Dominants my style of submission a turn off, and to them I say "best wishes elsewhere". As one friend told me, "There's a pot for every lid", and I'm confident I'll find my perfect fit.
A few things you should know about me:
SMOKING/HYGIENE: I LOVE to kiss and be affectionate. Pristine oral hygiene is essential. Smoking is a hard limit. Really.
SLAVE/MASTER: I'm not a slave, nor do I wish to become one at any point.
POLY- I am in polyamorous relationships. Both my partners and I go outside of our relationship. We do this with each others' knowledge and I wont be involved with anyone who does it deceitfully.
CHILDREN: I have two. As a fiercely proud lioness, they come first always. Also, men who want to "start" a family would do better to look elsewhere. I'm done with that stage of life.
NON-SERVICE ORIENTED: I refuse to be domesticated. AKA: do your own damn ironing. For clarification, see smart ass paragraph above.
TIME: My kink does not include being neglected or being placed dead last in your life.
HARD LIMITS: serious blood play, scat play, permanent marks, branding, temporary piercing, cages, breath play (anything more than mild choking), bathroom use control, and tickling (<
DEGRADATION: This deserves its own paragraph. I'm quite proud of being a submissive. My Dom will be proud of that quality too. Things like spitting in my face? Calling me worthless? Loaning me to his friends for the night? He'd never do that.
PICTURES: Please don't contact me unless you're willing to share a picture soon. Though I'm far from shallow, attraction is obviously important to me.
YOU: If your profile is descriptive and sets you apart from other men, I'll be intrigued and want to find out more about who you are. If you have an empty/non-descriptive profile and message me saying "hey" or "nice profile"...c'mon. Work with me. I spent time on my profile to attract a certain type of person. You do the same. Don't waste your time, or my own. Again, we can tell when you are not responding personally to us.
Married men: (As in: "monogamous" married men) Don't waste your time. I have no interest in being your dirty little secret. That is unconscionable, not at all what I'm about. Polyamory is not synonymous with cheating on your wife. Don't mistake my submissiveness with my inability to call bullshit on your ass.
BISEXUALITY: I've always had a bisexual mind, and have recently transferred that into the flesh. I'd like to explore more possibilities, and wouldn't want to be involved with anyone who didn't welcome this.
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