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Hi there,
Well, my ID on this site may be a give-away, but I do hail from the Highlands of Scotland where I was born & bred. I have been in the states over 10 years and do have (what i'm told is) a sexy Scottish brogue. The funny thing is that I think an American accent is sexy!!!
I have been told that I am a good looking guy - I am a youthful 40, 6', 190, HWP, GL (Well at least thats what my Mum said - & she wouldn't lie would she?:-), white guy with a shaved head and proof (finally) that black guys don't have the market cornered on the shaved-head-looks-cool stakes!:-) You can be the judge of that, though! LOL I am a professional, smart, educted, very likable because I'm so not pretentious, very accommodating, with a great sense of humor and ability to make most people laugh (I have a ton of self-deprecating jokes and stories that range from amusing to LOL). I am also a poet - just ask for some samples!:-)
I have a great imagination & high sex drive and a rare exception - a guy that actually knows how to kiss!. I'm a VERY passionate oral lover and have always gotten most of my enjoyment from pleasing my partner - this is probably where my sub nature comes from.
I am open to at least trying most things although I have 1 or 2 hard limits. I am pretty adventurous, non-judgmental and have just about covered the whole spectrum of play possibilities.
I am a masculine in-charge kind of guy in my non-scene life - i have management type job where I have to make all the decisions, sometimes be the 'hardass' and other times the social light that the team of subordinates hovers around. It all gets very very tiring.
Truth is at my heart I am definitely a natural submissive. The release (and pleasure) I get when another takes control is very real. The more it gives the finger to "society's norms & expectations" the more exciting it is for me. For example, Taking a female partner to a company event where everyone expects/assumes a certain role for my partner and I in the hotel room afterwards. The fact that she proudly wears her strap-on and is totally in command in the bedroom for my orgasm control, chastity device removal etc. and expects nothing less than total devotion and servitude is a huge turn-on and contributes to my happiness and contentment in that state. I have experienced the same "loving devotion" when I've been with a genuinely dominant transexual (M2F). I guess I should add that I love to bottom - and have skills, so I am told. I would be more interested in a Domme TS over a dominant woman but I think most tend to prefer btm or are not also into this BDSM lifestyle.
So find a Master or male Dom and be satisfied - I hear you say! :-) The truth is that although I play with guys and I am exclusively a bottom when I do, I am not emotionally attracted to guys. I dont do a "double-take" at a hot guy (I wouldnt even know what a hot guy looked like!:-) I've NEVER had a "date" with a guy that wasnt just a sex hook-up and most guys who are "dominant" are way more into inflicting pain than works for me. I am attracted (and see beauty) in women or passable transexuals. If the face is attractive - anything is possible after that. Basically I can form emotional as well as physical relationship with woman (or those living there lives as such) which is MUCH more powerful and what I need for any long-term relationship.
I am looking for a confident Dominant woman or Transexual who is looking for more than a one night "hook-up" situation. Who is not looking for a "switch" but a submissive male to mold into the perfect partner for her and which (hopefully) would become a long term relationship, ultimately 24/7 and involve co-habitation. Ideally someone who is confident (the top) in the bed room with me and in fact in all aspects of our relationship. She doesnt have to "switch" and for me "top" to make use of my dick!
My desires doesnt necessarily mean I desire (or require - but who am I to make rules? lol) a monogamous situation. I am open to monogamous, poly households and "cuckold" and/or slave type relationship. I guess this is where I confess to enjoying the exquisite "pain" of humiliation but also pleasure at seeing someone I love getting pleasure - if one of the ways that pleased her and gave her pleasure was to use/abuse/humiliate/tease/mock etc in front of other(s) then I would gladly accept her use of me for that end - for the right Domme, my submission and service is not qualified with rules (Other than everything revolving around some sexual theme/scene - which i guess is kind of a rule, oh darn it! lol Well Im honest and thats where I am today but with training....:-) I do know however that my oral skills (be it eating dick, pussy or ass) are way better than my cleaning skills :-)
I am also at a place in my life where I would be happy to come "out" about our relationship to any degree and to anyone that she desired - although if she liked having a "confident' masculine male companion when out and about I could easily play that role for my Mistress (knowing the true dynamic would excite me internally).
I also have no problem with one off "play dates", although i'd much prefer that the intention or hope be at least that it leads to some kind of regular 'thing' - chemistry not withstanding.
Ive tried to be honest but I hope I dont come across as whiny or needy - Im just looking for a Domme that is confident in herself and her role in any relationship. Someone who's dominant side and enjoyment at being worshiped and obeyed is natural and not just "role-play" (and hence not likely to grow-old but rather grow stronger over time!)
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| Age: 40 |
| San Francisco,
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