I am only looking for San Diego locals to play with.
I am a Gothic BBW switch that is really interested in pet play and age play, and I'm looking for a Top to devote my love and attentions to! I also love being a Dominant, so I can switch for my partner ... I also REALLY need to get fucked. A lot. :)

I've been definitely suffering with a role-identity crisis as far as Top/bottom, Dom/sub goes:
Am I a girl, am I a puppy, am I a kitten, am I service-oriented, am I even submissive, etc etc. I'm done with all that and just want to explore, play, and express myself through kink instead of slapping labels on everything! I Want To Explore ....

• Rope
• CUCKOLDING CUCKOLDING CUCKOLDING!! I want a cuck to marry...
• Kitten/Puppy Pet Play
• Bondage
• Leash/Collar/Harnesses
• Ice
• Flogging
• Obedience training
• Service Submission
• Cages
• Medical Play
• Needle Play
• Masks/Hoods
• Foot/Heel Fetishism
• Zenati - I have recently discovered my lycra/spandex fetish has evolved into a clear obsession with wearing Zentai suits! They are a total sensation-fuck for me. They make me all giggly and happy, and turn me on more than anything ... I'd love to find someone who wouldn't mind at least TRYING it out, since lycra on lycra is an AMAZING sensation ...

• Male or Female
• Sane, safe play
• Interested in the Gothic lifestyle
  
• TRUST AND RESPECT
• Experience
• Firm but affectionate
• Loving attitude; wants their bottom to reach her potential, not just looking for play to cure boredom
• An emotional connection; I don't want to JUST PLAY for the sake of playing, I need to feel a real D/s dynamic.
• THE POSSIBILITY OF A LTR RELATIONSHIP. Of course, these must form organically, but I do enjoy knowing that there is a possibility.

• emotional/physical neglect
• "Masters" who use their status just to fuck girls. You don't fool me. :P
• HUMILIATION: I cannot mentally handle humiliation.
• Poly/open relationships. They aren't for me.