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Female Submissive, 32, Cherry Hill, New Jersey
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Dominant Couple, 42, Augusta, Georgia
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About KinkyPlatypus
Do not message me with a simple hi, Im sure at least half of you are more creative than that.
Ive been involved in BDSM for about half a dozen of years now, and have learned much about myself and the human condition. Dominance isnt a something that only happens behind closed doors in the throes of passion, it is a mindset that persists - just as submissiveness. Ive always had a naturally Dominant persona, but through my experience with BDSM, I began to truly see what it meant.
On a logical level, the benefits of Ds frameworks are obvious, just as the benefits of most hierarchies. However, there is much more to it aside from what perfectly logical thought entails much like protons attract electrons and flames attract moths, the inherent attraction between a compatible Dominant and a submissive almost resembles a law of nature. A submissive surrenders her power to a Dominant, and so a symbiotic bond is ed.
Ill get to what this means sexually in a few seconds. Within mammalian species exist blatant displays of Dominance and submission - each having a locus of pleasure in the subcortical regions of the brain. Why do the submissive conspecifics suffer discomfort by choice? They sure as hell dont have a structured social system that determines what is and what isnt fair. Its because its pleasurable to them. It maintains order and increases the fitness of the social group or relationship.
Humans are a bit more complex. We have many more elaborate(fun) ways we can trigger the appropriate neural circuitry through Dominance and submission.
Pain is purely pleasurable for a very few people, even in the kink community. Its the act of being caused pain by the Dominant who has power over you, either within a relationship or a scene, which brings it out as ecstasy. Psychological surrender(or subspace) can arise in most situations of discomfort when submitting to a Dominant.
And as we all well know, pain isnt exclusive in this. Most things which cause humans discomfort may be utilized our taboos, our inhibitions, our self-concept. To submit, would be to surrender these critical attributes and allow the Dominant to take control and push them to their limits and beyond.
To me, the pain, the bruises, the welts - are beauty, and the sobs, screams, and moans - are a symphony. The submissive allows me to take all that from her, and still asks for more. Does she have to deserve punishment to crawl on all fours like a dog and kiss my feet as I leave red and purple marks on her ass? No. Its her reward.
Dont be scared to message me, although I do bite hard - but youre probably into that. |
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