As for meeting I'm not ready to jump into bed with anyone. It's way more important to make sure we are comfortable and build trust beforehand. At the same time I'm not ruling out seeing where things go."

-me

From a recent conversation with a local sub:

Hi,

Well, here's the status, it may or may not work for you but here it is:
I'm married with an open relationship status. We are ok with each other playing on the side but neither of us want to know about it. So yeah any play will be discrete. I rarely play in public anyway, so this is not a big issue for me. This also doesn't mean we can't go and grab a drink - we can. But what I'm looking for is mainly kinky play with a special partner. Someone who gets it and needs it as much as I do... (my wife admits she doesn't).

I did say no ltr, but obviously if we like each other and the play is strong - why not? Due to changes to my travel schedules I no longer am able to play with one of my dearest partners. We're both at a loss and we'll still play on occasion but at the moment I'm looking for someone locally that wants to learn how to serve a demanding yet sensual dom.

Let me know,

“Knowledge is power, but enthusiasm pulls the switch.” – Ivern Ball

You only have power over people so long as you don't take everything away from them. But when you've robbed a man of everything, he's no longer in your power - he's free again.
--Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn